MT15: 16 February 2004
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In the Spirit of Happiness

 

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Kevin Sharpe

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Graduate College, Union Institute and University, Cincinnati, Ohio, USA
Harris Manchester College, Oxford University, UK
Oxford Institute for Science and Spirit, Oxford, UK
10 Shirelake Close, Oxford OX1 1SN, United Kingdom
kevin.sharpe@tui.edu
www.ksharpe.com


Structure

Summary:

Overall: How can we become happy in a way that is spiritually healthy and true? To strive for happiness we ought to follow what scientific research says are the routes to happiness. These are also the spiritual ways to happiness.

Tension:

What would make us happier? In particular, how can we become happier in a way that’s true to our inmost spiritual selves?

Ending:

To follow the scientifically established ways is to follow spiritual reality’s ways toward living in the higher range of our happiness set points.

Outstanding Points and Questions:

·         Go through what Rebecca added to EP22 (Love and Happiness book).

·         (From my agent.) A general audience isn’t interested in reconciling; this gets in the way. They are, rather, interested in how to become happier. Explain the ways that people can become happier. Subsume my intellectual question. My three questions already are pretty loaded; e.g., the ‘afterlife’ is too religious for secular readers. The ‘afterlife’: need a case for it.

·         Note that words (and their definitions) like happiness are our linguistic approximations (critical realism) (and, to some extent, models for) certain physical realities. Therefore, the arguments by Thomists and others over the definition of happiness are puerile unless they are trying to describe rather than define the state of happiness that we feel, i.e., subjective well being.

·         11-Oct-99 Oxytocin -- this may cause the opposite of agape rather agape itself, because it leads to behavior that protects one's offspring against others. It's an in-group behavior rather than a behavior that extends to the out-group.

·         2/17/96  Do a paper based on the oxytocin stuff

- use CS Lewis' "4 loves" to show his God is too small (or is it?)

- God and morality must surpass or incorporate oxytocin stuff.

How do I answer this?

God is the doer of all (take from Sir John) => God does good and bad.

Not only will, but natural. Not that our natural state is all bad or all good, but that we have conflicting motivations, both of which are natural. Place of culture in this.

So what role does God have in morality, e.g., in the good?

Is a problem in all good and all bad (e.g., mothering too much). More appropriate ways for humans to live -  Jesus as the example.

      Maybe this is going too far, apart from raising the questions and in so doing, asking if "your God is too small." "Biochemical love expands God."


 

Table of Contents

Preface. 1

Chapter 1: Biochemistry Stories. 1

Chapter 2: Scientific Stories. 1

We Feel Happy Yet Want More. 1

Subjective Well-Being. 1

Neurotransmitters: Dopamine and Seratonin. 1

Set Ranges. 1

Brain Part Where Neurotransmitters Work and the Set Range Lies. 1

Twin Studies for Set Ranges and Genes. 1

Evolutionary Psychology Explanations. 1

Happiness as a Natural Phenomenon. 1

Chapter 3: New Plymouth Stories. 1

Chapter 4: Cultural Stories. 1

Not Children. 1

Not Age. 1

Not Gender 1

Not Race. 1

Not Wealth. 1

Not Health. 1

Not High Events. 1

Not Low Events. 1

Neither Ups Nor Downs. 1

Why? Adaptation and Opponent-Process. 1

Limits to This Search for Happiness. 1

Conclusion. 1

Chapter 5: Religion Stories. 1

Chapter 6: Spiritual Stories. 1

Socrates. 1

Plato. 1

Aristotle. 1

Augustine. 1

Aquinas. 1

Contemporary Christianity. 1

Confucianism.. 1

Taoism.. 1

Buddhism.. 1

Hinduism.. 1

Islam.. 1

Judaism.. 1

Conclusion: Spirituality and Happiness. 1

Chapter 7: Travel Stories. 1

Chapter 8: Conflicting Stories. 1

Clashes. 1

Do We Need the Spiritual?. 1

Science Ignores the Spiritual 1

The Spiritual’s Response: Let’s-Get-’Em.. 1

The Spiritual’s Response: There’s More than Genes. 1

The Spiritual’s Response: Let’s-Have-’Em-Both. 1

The Spiritual’s Response: Let’s-Hope-It’ll-All-Go-Away. 1

Conclusion: Working Together 1

Other Approaches. 1

A Better Relationship between Spiritual and Scientific Thinking. 1

Chapter 9: Place Stories. 1

Chapter 10: Telling Stories. 1

Happiness Evolved into Us to Achieve. 1

The Spiritual 1

The Origins of the Universe. 1

Starting with Something. 1

Exploring the Subuniverse. 1

Relating the Universe and Spiritual Reality. 1

How to Think Spiritually. 1

The Spiritual Works as Evolution. 1

Laying the Groundwork. 1

Increasing Complexity. 1

Defining Evolution. 1

Moving toward Greater Wholeness-within-Diversity. 1

Searching for Significance in the Movements of the Universe. 1

To Offer Meaning for Our Lives. 1

Spirituality Leads to Happiness Seeking. 1

Science Suggests How to Become Happier 1

Chapter 11: Relationship Stories. 1

Chapter 12: How-To Stories. 1

Science Contributes: Happiness from Enduring Characteristics. 1

Happy Traits. 1

These Traits May Not Cause Happiness But Accompany It 1

Role of Genes. 1

Attitudes/Behaviors That Correlate With, Perhaps Cause, Happiness. 1

Social Relationships and Happiness. 1

Chapter 13: Writing Stories. 1

Chapter 14: Flow Stories. 1

Flow and Happiness. 1

Purposes and Goals. 1

Intentions. 1

Happiness from Pursuing Goals in Flow.. 1

Preparation for Flow.. 1

Flow/Meaning and Happiness. 1

Chapter 15: Persistence Stories. 1

Chapter 16: Faith Stories. 1

Happiness and Religion. 1

Happiness from Faith’s God. 1

Happiness from Faith’s Beliefs. 1

Happiness from Faith’s Belonging. 1

Happiness from Faith’s Pursuits. 1

Happiness from Faith’s Meaning. 1

Happiness and Faith. 1

Happiness from What Spiritual Path?. 1

Western Society’s Value Gap. 1

Justice and Happiness. 1

Spirituality and the Values Gap. 1

An Adequate Spiritual Path. 1

Faith and Happiness. 1

Conclusion. 1

Chapter 17: Meaning Stories. 1

Chapter 18: Revised Stories. 1

Restating Revelation. 1

Restating Resurrection. 1

Smiles for Meaning and Happiness. 1

What Is Spiritual Reality?. 1

Asking Questions about Revelation. 1

Asking Questions about Resurrection. 1

Developing Starting Points. 1


MT15: 16 February 2004

Preface

I drove to my local K-Mart yesterday and tried to find a parking space. The first row I peered down had only large new SUVs and no space for my little old Honda Civic. The second row I peered down had a space between two SUVs. I felt lost in a forest of giants and hoped that the next one seeking a space wouldn’t inadvertently squash my near-hidden Civic.

The Explorer one down from my car left and a Landcruiser pulled in, bright in silver and chrome. Out climbed (literally, climbed) a suburban New Jersey mother in her 30s wearing the latest in fashion tracksuit and makeup.

Why does she drive a SUV? Why does she dress and adorn herself in the way she does? I wouldn’t mind her money – but that’s my story about feeling happy. Presumably, she drives her vehicle and her husband wants her to drive it because they believe it makes their lives happier: it lessens the chance of her and their kids being hurt in a car crash, she can carry more stuff, the kids feel less cramped and cranky, and the Joneses – everyone else in their street is a Jones – park their four or more SUVs in their drive way and she doesn’t want any Jones to look down on her.

Much of what we do in life comes from our desire to be happy. It is one of our strongest drives. We don’t like to feel unhappy and so desire its opposite. To avoid unhappiness and keep or increase how happy I usually feel, I buy storage boxes from K-Mart to keep my house more in order, the evening meal of chicken from A&P so I don’t succumb to hunger pangs and a lack of blood sugar, Compound-W from CVS to get rid of warts that I think make my hand look ugly, and I look into replacing the Civic with a new Subaru Outback.

Like me, most of us go about our lives automatically pursuing happiness in ways we haven’t thought deeply about. We assume how we might become happier. Our culture tells us what we must do, through the ads and news broadcasts we see and hear and the books and stories we read. We must lose our pimples and crooked teeth. Regain youth. Attain good looks. Money. Popularity. Lots of sex.

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I wrote the above not knowing that, at the same time, the two jets slammed into the twin towers of the World Trade Center and a third into the Pentagon. I broke for lunch, heard the news on the Civic’s radio on my way out, and haven’t been able to add to this writing for several days. I am in northeast New Jersey, a couple of miles from Manhattan. The storage boxes, Compound-W, SUVs, and Outbacks hardly seem to matter now.

I wanted to write here about the importance, the fundamental importance, of religion and spirituality for everyday life, including for our happiness. I wanted to associate spirituality with happiness. New Yorkers’ and the world’s response to the catastrophe, and the terrorists’ fanaticism tell us several things, including:

·        Religious beliefs can so powerfully grip the whole of a person’s life that she or he can perform the most outrageous acts – including self-destruction – in the cause of the beliefs.

·        My daughters and parents in New Zealand and my friends in England and the US were very worried; as were millions of others for those they know and love. Many in my New Jersey town of SUV owners work in Wall Street industry. The town fell silent: no cars, no trains, no planes, no children…no one was out.

·        Mayor Giuliani of New York City was as compassionate as a person can be during TV appearances. People cared for each other: struggling down the towers helping the wounded and over wrought; firefighters and police dying trying to save others; plane passengers thwarting hijackers. People care: no looting; long lines of blood donors. We want to help.

All these are spiritual: the religious beliefs such as the terrorists held, the shock of family and neighbors, and the caring for those in need.

Concern and compassion at such times as this attack on NYC are as integral to our spiritual nature as is hatred and destructiveness to the spiritual nature of the terrorists. Our spirituality undergirds every aspect of our lives, giving us meaning and purpose, informing us on how to behave and what to believe and feel about almost everything.

Finding greater happiness or reducing our unhappiness motivates us from deep down inside ourselves. It, therefore, must be something that spiritual belief ought to discuss and it must be something that spiritual activity tries to lead us to. We all want to be happy: whether it be by avoiding as much pain as we can, by helping those whose suffering we feel, or by being specially received in the afterlife by killing as many Americans as possible and ourselves in the process. Becoming happier has to do with our spirituality and must be closely connected to whatever we believe or think about God.

I write for those who want to live spiritual lives. Whatever we may think the word ‘spiritual’ means and whatever we may think the word ‘God’ refers to, those of us who want to live spiritually direct our lives as much as possible so we live as correctly as we can. I have just called a person who has lost a cat and has a notice up in a local supermarket asking for information. I left a message to say that, according to another notice up in the supermarket, someone else has found a cat that matches the description of the one that’s missing. Why did I phone them? Because I believe I ought to help other people whenever I reasonably can. I know how I would feel if I lost my cat. My belief and my tendency to help have become built into me. It’s part of my attempt to live a spiritual life.

We have the urge to become happier (or, the urge to become happier has us) plus we choose to live as spiritual and as upright lives as possible. We are pushed to happiness plus our conscience and insight guide us. We therefore want to follow ways to happiness that are spiritually sound or, even better, that help us develop spiritually. We want to become happier via routes that God creates for us to follow.

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Two weeks have now passed since the destruction of the World Trade Center. Over this time, I have felt numb and my feet have felt that I was dragging along in sticky goo; only yesterday did these feelings mostly lift. I see and hear and read around me two strong reactions. One, we should lash out in anger and bomb some place, probably Afghanistan, into dust. Two, we shouldn’t fly any more.

I still want to increase my happiness. Would it make me happier to follow the crowd? I decided a long time ago that this doesn’t help me. I also decided that morally it is wrong to bomb innocent people even if we’ve been wronged. I fly a lot and did so last weekend; I decided that, despite the risk in flying and the hassle of well-intentioned but overly zealous security measures, I will still fly. I owe that to my students who need my presence to continue or complete their studies. I think I should follow what I feel is right rather than follow what those around me feel is right. This may make me feel more at peace with my conscience but less comfortable living in my neighborhood. Life is about making decisions and balancing out possible behaviors that come from different motivations. In the long run, following my conscience will, I believe, lead me to greater happiness. My wife-to-be is a Jew and she asked me what I would do if the Nazis came for her. I know what I’d do; I’d tell them she wasn’t here and do my utmost to protect her. That would probably lead to my death along with hers, but that’s me. A death camp wouldn’t make me happier. But being alive at her expense would make me feel even less happy.

On the other hand, I am writing this. I write. I know that getting into the flow of writing makes me feel happy. I love to sort out ideas and try to communicate them. So, I choose to write and try to find time each day to do so. That’s a decision I make toward my happiness.

If I were a fireperson and was asked to help at the World Trade Center, I would have done so despite my desire to write. That’s a decision I also make toward my priorities in life.

This making of decisions is spiritual because it’s our using our God-created ability to choose. For me, it’s also spiritual because I use science’s God-created information about flow and what I have experienced about the flow I achieve through writing. We can live according to how humans have evolved (that is, how God created us), by seeking happiness via ways that work, by seeking justice via ways that work, by acting out our concern and love for others via ways that will work. We can all do this for ourselves.

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Apparently, most of us aim at happiness; our culture reinforces this and we seek it through many, many means.

Thus I ask two things: What is happiness? What does science say it is? Then, What in theory spiritually, popularly, scientifically makes a person happier?

I also ask these of myself: What does happiness feel like? When do I have it? Then, What brings me greater happiness?

Instinctively, I associate happiness with spirituality. Is this an accurate connection; what does happiness have to do with the spiritual path a person follows? How can we become happier in a way that’s true to our inmost spiritual selves? Can science justify ways to happiness that are spiritually healthy and true?

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could find scientifically grounded ways to increase everyone’s happiness and that, at the same time, not only rescues our world from its self-destruction, pain, and misery, but that brings us closer to God.


MT15: 16 February 2004

Chapter 1:
Biochemistry Stories

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Should be something about how I find biochem more and more important in understanding behavior and states and therefore happiness. Parallel this with my own story of biology of happiness: depression (disthymia and diabetes) and Zoloft (also in twice below).

Biochemistry of happiness:

·          IRAS at Star

·          Germany

·          Miriam

·          Michael Ruse

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Thyroid. Dragging. Lung infection? Blood test. Waiting for results. Results. Pill. Difference.

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Importance of biochemistry for understanding how we function? Story of biology in the future being more important than physics. Story of how it’s impacted on me more and more, personally and (by implication) ideationally. Bill Wilson’s story. Linda. School prizes.

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Impact of diabetes on me.

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Chapter 2:
Scientific Stories

## Personal rejection of usual ways to happiness

## Theme:

Outlines the psychological, biological, neurological, and evolutionary psychology stories of what happiness is subjectively (subjective well-being), what it is objectively, how many of us experience it, and why it functions in us as it does. Happiness evolved into us, and this process left each of us with our own inbuilt predisposition to happiness. It is an inherited goal with roots in our genetic being. We are all usually happy, but we usually want to feel happy more of the time.

Tension:

We generally do feel happy yet we want more happiness. What’s at work here?

Lead: 

Happiness is feeling ‘quite nice.’

Hook: 

‘She thought now…and yet….’

Ending:

The tension in this chapter is in the usually feeling happy yet wanting more The resolution is an evolutionary picture. Then, how do we become happier?

 

We Feel Happy Yet Want More

Happiness is, quite simply, feeling nice. A mixture of contentment and wisdom laced with bright, shining joy. When we’re happy we feel gratitude, inner peace, satisfaction and affection for ourselves and others.

Studies of happiness have taken place worldwide. The National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago has annually sampled, on average, 1,500 representative examples of U.S. residents since 1957. The Institute for Social Research at the University of Michigan and the Gallup Organization both conduct similar, but less frequent polls. European governments also fund studies to ascertain the happiness of their citizens.

Three in ten U.S. residents self-report as very happy, and only one in ten claims to be ‘not too happy,’ according to the University of Chicago studies. Psychologists David Myers of Hope College, Michigan, and Ed Diener of the University of Illinois conclude from survey results like this on 1.1 million people from over the globe that the majority of us describe ourselves as ‘pretty happy’; 93 percent of us would classify ourselves as feeling happy (which includes very happy, pretty happy, and moderately happy) as opposed to sad or neutral. A few exceptions do exist: hospitalized alcoholics, for example, and new prison inmates, people newly undergoing psychotherapy, South African Blacks during the reign of apartheid, and students in economically and politically oppressive states.

We appear much happier than literature or the media depict. The distinction that matters isn’t between happy and unhappy people, but between what percentage of the time we feel happy versus unhappy, and how happy and unhappy.

She thought now, as with eyes closed she floated, oh how perfect this is, oh I am so happy! And yet, some other nearby thought-self was saying, how can I be happy now, when everything is going very soon to be dissolved into pieces and made as if it had never been.

We all desire happiness and devote considerable time to seeking it. How to rearrange our job so it will satisfy and fulfill us more? How to get on better with our partner so we can more happily share the rest of our lives? How to ensure that we spend our next leisure more time pleasurably and constructively?

## Is happiness-seeking the chief goal for most of us? We want other things because we think they bring happiness? // A seeker of happiness is one aspect of who I am, but who I am is largely in modern times (always?) a seeker of happiness. Being happy is the chief goal of life—never reached for most of us. (Reference the big question for this series.)

Most of us already feel happy yet most of us constantly strive to be happier. Why does this contradiction happen? What does happiness depend on? What is happiness? Let’s look first at what science says about it.

Subjective Well-Being

Social psychologists call happiness, ‘subjective well-being.’ Psychological literature offers definitions. Subjective well-being refers to the satisfaction we feel about specific areas of our life, like work and relationships, which leads to an overall sense of our satisfaction with life. Those of us with high subjective well-being mostly think positively about our lives; we judge events positively. So we mainly feel pleasant emotions. Those of us with low subjective well-being judge events negatively and tend to experience unpleasant emotions like anger, depression, and anxiety.

Downness isn’t the absence of upness, and vice versa. Knowledge of how much pleasant feeling we experience over time doesn’t suggest how much unpleasant feeling we experience. Some of us encounter extremely good feelings and extremely bad feelings. Wonderful highs can give way to dreadful lows. Others of us are typically happy, or depressive, or unemotional. Positive and negative emotions needn’t diametrically oppose.

Psychologists find it more appropriate, therefore, to understand subjective well-being in terms of three related aspects: the presence of positive feelings, the absence of negative feelings, and the degree of satisfaction with life.

## Mary wants the ‘unhappy’ stuff included – we can distinguish between happiness and unhappiness and we want the former over the latter.

To examine happiness from the view of psychology requires a way to measure it. Most social scientists ask their subjects to report how they feel: ‘How satisfied are you with your life as a whole these days? Are you very satisfied? Satisfied? Not very satisfied? Not at all satisfied?’ The studies may also include multi-item scales. But should we take subjects’ answers at face value? Perhaps people who dub themselves ‘happy’ might actually be hiding their unhappiness (from themselves as well as from researchers). Not usually. Many factors suggest the reliability of a person’s self-reports of subjective well-being. The reports:

·        are fairly consistent, remaining stable over testing periods of between 6 months and 6 years;

·        are fairly consistent across the various methods for assessing happiness (even those that use beepers to ensure sampling at random times);

·        corroborate with information on happiness and satisfaction that family, close friends, and clinical interviewers provide;

·        still make sense after taking into account factors like current mood and what behavior society favors (social desirability turns out, in fact, to enhance well-being).

Further, those who are happy:

·        report mainly positive emotions each day;

·        remember more positive – and fewer negative – events than do unhappy people;

·        corroborate in their reports with other indicators of well-being; they are less self-centered, less abusive and hostile, and more healthy than unhappy people;

·        love more, smile more, forgive more, trust more, help more, and show more energy, decisiveness, creativity, and friendliness than unhappy people;

·        respond better to both positive and negative events and to therapy than do unhappy people; and

·        feel happy when not feeling ill, and vice versa.

All these factors lead researchers to accept subjective, self-reports of happiness and unhappiness. We should accept the worldwide surveys reported above that show most people are happy most of the time. Happiness is subjective well-being. We normally we assume this to be the case, and I accept it. ## Before we look at how to be happy, we need to decide what happiness is. However, because I address moderns in a modern setting, I assume the contemporary scientific and psychological positions.## When we talk of happiness and when search for it, I assume we mean subjective well-being.## How does happiness relate to pleasure? // Is there a clinical distinction between joy and happiness? Joy has a different meaning theologically. Are both, in fact, subjective well-being? I would image that they are the same experientially.

Besides a descriptive, subjective account, what is happiness? What is it physically in our bodies?

Neurotransmitters: Dopamine and Seratonin

## Oxford: This could almost be biographical (but in 3rd person): role of Zoloft (sertraline); role of diabetes. Neurotransmitters Susan Greenfield on feelings and the flood of chemicals – neurotransmitters: Prozac specifically works with them to increase a person’s happiness. Oxford and Prozac? Sertraline versus Zoloft? The Opium Den. Big center in the UK for drugs, especially in the area I live in. Guy swaggering and trying to put his hat on outside Office World while I was buying a printer.

Neurotransmitters work by passing information from the synapse or junction between a nerve cell and another nerve cell or a muscle. The nerve cell’s bulbous end releases them from storage when an electrical impulse moving along the nerve reaches it. They then cross the junction to dock at the other nerve cell’s receptor, like spacecraft docking at a space station, and either prompt or inhibit the impulses along the second cell. The first nerve cell reabsorbs excess neurotransmitters, but not necessarily all of them. Those that remain free-floating can influence how we feel.

Molecular biologist Dean Hamer of the National Cancer Institute directs our attention to two of the more than 300 known neurotransmitters, dopamine and serotonin. Those that remain free-floating, according to biology, help create our happy or miserable states of being. Dopamine acts as the brain’s chemical for pleasure. ‘It is what is released after a good meal, a pleasant sexual experience or a hit of cocaine,’ Hamer explains. Recreational drugs like amphetamines prove so popular because they belong to the same family as dopamine and produce similar effects – feelings of happiness, contentment, and satisfaction. Hamer describes serotonin as ‘the brain’s punishment chemical’ – with its reduced activity, misery appears. Scientists associate lack of serotonin with depression, suicide, and anxiety. These are symptoms of a modern malaise and, as chillingly described by Elisabeth Wurtzel’s book, Prozac Nation: Young and Depressed in America, doctors now prescribe the drug Prozac (which prolongs the action of serotonin produced by the brain) as a matter of course to counter these negative emotions.

Genes carry the instructions for the construction of neurotransmitters, their receptor and reabsorption portals. They also impart information on such things as their storage and release rates. Hence, genes can influence the prevalence, scarcity, and activity of serotonin and dopamine, and, in turn, whatever behaviors and feelings these neurotransmitters induce. Researchers have found, for instance, that people who differ in the gene that produces part of the D4 dopamine receptor – the part that controls the amount of dopamine binding there – differ in a parallel way in their moods. People with the highest levels of dopamine report feeling the most positive. Psychologist Richard Davidson at the University of Wisconsin comments: this is ‘the first time there’s been a specific connection between a molecular genetic finding and people’s levels of happiness.’

The genetic view of happiness has implications for the cause of our feelings of well-being because our genetic code translates partly into how our neurology (nervous system) behaves.

Set Ranges

## Oxford: Stories of weight reduction and models.

For each of us, our happiness fluctuates within a small range called a ‘set-point’ that our genes largely determine. So Hamer concludes in his review of studies on the role of genes in happiness or misery. The set point represents a kind of preset value we are born with and to which our level of happiness inevitably returns. Because ‘point’ suggests one point rather than a range, I use the phrase ‘set range’ rather than ‘set point.’

This notion resembles the metabolic set range which some scientists claim governs our weight – no matter how many cakes or chocolates we eat, the body’s metabolism readjusts to maintain its preset weight. This could explain why some people find it so hard to shed excess pounds, while others are lucky enough to have figures like supermodels Claudia Schiffer and Kate Moss. Scientific studies showing that body mass is 70% heritable lend credence to the metabolic set range.

Although we experience temporary mood swings, we soon readjust to our genetic set range for happiness in the same way, which might explain why some of us always approach life full of hope and enthusiasm, while others seem permanently to experience the blues.

Brain Part Where Neurotransmitters Work and the Set Range Lies

Some scientists think they have located the part of the brain that registers happiness and where the set range mechanism works. Richard Davidson has found that people with more activity on the left prefrontal area of the brain experience greater happiness, while those with greater activity on the right prefrontal area experience more negative emotions. People with the greatest right prefrontal activity suffer from clinical depression and claim that life holds no pleasure for them. Even very young children appear to fit the pattern – babies of ten months tend to cry less easily when separated from their mother for short periods if they exhibit more active left prefrontal lobes. Further evidence derives from the work of Richard Lane and his colleagues at the University of Arizona’s College of Medicine. Their preliminary research indicates that feelings of happiness, sadness, and disgust all co-occur with increased brain activity in the thalamus and medial prefrontal cortex. Greater activity near the ventral medial frontal cortex distinguishes happiness from sadness, while happiness correlates with significant increases in bilateral activity near the middle and posterior temporal cortex and hypothalamus. Lane concludes that, ‘spatially distributed brain regions participate in each emotion.’

Twin Studies for Set Ranges and Genes

## Oxford: Twin studies? Lyndon Eaves comes to mind; I don’t know if he has any association with this place.

Research shows that a person’s level of happiness remains stable over many years. In a study of 5000 adults carried out by the National Institute on Aging in America, people who felt happiest in 1973 showed up as relatively happy ten years later. A recent report by psychologists Christopher Lewis at the University of Ulster and Stephen Joseph at the University of Essex suggests that the Depression-Happiness Scale (that psychologists use to calculate levels of happiness) actually measures happiness as an underlying trait, rather than as a transitory state, as researchers used to assume. Lewis and Joseph’s work shows that with a small group of respondents, scores on the scale remained relatively stable over two years, which in turn suggests that people’s happiness levels persist within their set ranges over the long term. Most people are happy the world over and for most of their lives. The question becomes not, ‘What can make me happy?’ But, rather, ‘What can put me into the higher part of my set range for happiness?’

Other support for the existence of a genetic set range comes from a series of twin studies conducted by behavioral geneticist David Lykken and psychologist Auke Tellegen, both at the University of Minnesota.

Twins provide an excellent base from which to study the degree of heritability of behavioral traits, because identical twins share identical genes whereas fraternal twins share genes as do ordinary siblings (roughly 50%). The greater the difference in concordance between identical and fraternal twins over a particular characteristic, the greater its heritability and the smaller the role that external or environmental factors play.

Identical twins attain the same level of happiness 44% of the time, while fraternal twins reach the same level only 8% of the time, according to Lykken and Tellegen’s research. Their study asked 1,380 pairs of twins raised together to rate themselves on claims like ‘I am just naturally cheerful,’ and ‘My future looks very bright to me.’ Similar results emerged from a smaller previous study with twins separated in infancy and raised separately.

‘This conclusion means that the variance in adult happiness is determined about equally by genetic factors and by the effects of experiences unique to each individual,’ say Lykken and Tellegen. Hamer echoes their claims: ‘These data show that the broad heritability of well-being is 40 to 50%.’ Sex, age, race, and marital status of the twins have only the slightest (2%) impact. ## Include the point made in the letter to me.

Heritability raises even higher for happiness in the long term. Lykken and Tellegen administered the same questionnaire to a subset of the twins five to ten years later and then performed cross-twin, cross-time calculations, comparing the score of one twin at 20 with his/her co-twin at 25 or 30. The correlation statistics show that, ‘the heritability of the stable component of well-being is about .80’ and so, ‘how you feel right now is about equally genetic and circumstantial, but how you will feel on average over the next ten years is fully 80% because of your genes.’

With heritability this high, an identical twin’s self-report of well-being gives a pretty good idea of a person’s happiness.

Evolutionary Psychology Explanations

## Oxford: the search for happiness plays the key role. Dawkins THE link with eψ talks of his tree by the Thames; does his affairs or his many marriages suggest his search for happiness, or his childhood experience of religion?

Another science contributes here, evolutionary psychology. It looks at the evolutionary reasons why we have the characteristics and behavior that we do. It aims to explain human goals, beliefs, and theories in Darwinian terms – at least in part.

Why do we have these brain parts, neurochemical functioning, genes, and so on, that end with our feeling happy? Why do we have happiness?

The urge to survive and reproduce determines even the ways in which we think, the ways in which our minds work. One leading proponent of evolutionary psychology, Michael Ruse, a philosopher at the University of Guelph, puts the point bluntly: ‘Those proto-humans who believed in 2+2=4, rather than 2+2=5, survived and reproduced, and those who did not, did not.’ The belief that 2+2=4 proves advantageous for our survival; therefore, we take it as true.

Evolutionary psychology has something to say about human happiness too. The early evolutionary psychologist, Donald Campbell, describes us as condemned ‘to live on a hedonic treadmill.’ We fanatically pursue happiness, yet, no sooner have we reached one goal, than the satisfaction fades away and we commence reaching for the next rung on the hedonic ladder. ‘As the environment becomes more pleasurable, subjective standards for gauging pleasurableness will rise,’ he explains, adding, ‘‘habituation will produce a decline in the subjective pleasurableness of the input.’ This is, of course, a theoretical statement of the idea of a genetic set range for happiness, as we discussed earlier in the chapter. We feel ecstatic on gaining a pay rise, but soon find that our material situation feels little different from before; perhaps we can live the high life more frequently, but we soon get used to that. We no longer feel happy – we want another rise. We’ve habituated and feel the need to strive once more.

What adaptive advantage does it bring to seek happiness, if frustration and dissatisfaction constitute the net outcome? Campbell comes up with the beginnings of an answer: maybe only those people who live in oppression without hope of motivation have given up entirely on the search for happiness. Other proponents of evolutionary psychology take Campbell’s suggestion further: ‘We are built to be effective animals, not happy ones...,’ argues Robert Wright in his book, The Moral Animal. ‘Of course, we’re designed to pursue happiness; and the attainment of Darwinian goals – sex, status, and so on – often brings happiness, at least for a while. Still, the frequent absence of happiness is what keeps us pursuing it, and thus makes us productive.’## There’s still the question about why ‘pleasurable’ feelings like happiness motivate us to seek more. Or does this question lie in the definition of  ‘pleasurable’? // I need to push that $ competing evolutionary forces as well as happiness and that this makes our drives very complex and relative to the situations we’re in – this will condition a lot of what I say here.

For the evolutionary psychologist, then, the search for happiness plays the key role – our desire for pleasure keeps us on our toes, the activity expands our horizons, our resources, and our skills. Parents employ much the same catch-it-if-you-can psychology when encouraging their offspring to walk – brandishing a favorite toy lures the child into stepping towards it, moving the toy further away means that the child progresses a few steps nearer. As the toy recedes ever further, the child’s walking ability improves proportionally.

Happiness as a Natural Phenomenon

## Oxford: Michael Argyle.

The many sciences that discuss human happiness have one point of focus in common: happiness as a natural phenomenon. This naturalism takes several forms – a set range for happiness encoded in our genes, neurotransmitters responsible for our states of well-being and misery, the pursuit of happiness bringing adaptive advantages that aid our survival and reproduction. Despite this apparent diversity, the materialist focus shines through. It’s our biology that directs our passionate love affair with happiness.

How do we become happier?


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Chapter 3:
New
Plymouth Stories

## Pushing beyond New Plymouth:

·        standing on the shoulders of my parents

·        unhappiness at school, etc.

·        NP worldview


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Chapter 4:
Cultural Stories

I always thought I was an ugly kid – you know – pimples, crooked teeth, frizzy hair, skinny, glasses, and the worst curse – flat-chested, and I also remember feeling so depressed.’ Many of us remember our teenage years as miserable. We lost our pre-teen happiness. Thomas Szasz captures these sentiments: ‘Happiness is an imaginary condition, formerly attributed by the living to the dead, now usually attributed by adults to children, and by children to adults.’

Yet, most of us would like to feel happier. What would do this? A lack of pimples and straight teeth? Youth? Popular culture agrees and adds to the list: Good looks. Money. High social status. Sex. Can we do something to earn more happiness?

Perhaps we should first ask what makes one person happier more often than another.

Not Children

Three percent of people in developing countries and five percent in developed countries favor single child families. Does a childhood either with or without sisters or brothers affect our happiness? Surveys of 2,500 adolescents in the Netherlands and of more than 9,000 adults in the U.S. show that sibling-less people feel very happy just as often as those with siblings.

Not Age

Popular culture believes that we experience greater unhappiness during our teen years, our mid-life crises, and our old age. However,

·        a survey of 169,776 people in 16 nations suggests otherwise;

·        rates of depression, suicide, career-swapping, and divorce don’t reflect a particular unhappiness in the years of mid-life crisis;

·        parents don’t become markedly unhappy when their children leave home.

We can’t pre-judge someone’s happiness by knowing his or her age. We do face crises, but they arise quite independent of our stage in life.

Not Gender

Women experience severe depression and anxiety at double the rate for men. Gender affects happiness – on the face of it. We must balance these findings with the fact that women experience both sadness and joy more intensely than men, and that men suffer alcoholism and antisocial personality disorders at five times the rate for women. Surveys show that:

·        Women are as likely as men to report themselves ‘very happy’ and ‘satisfied’ with their lives.

·        Eighty percent of women and 80 percent of men declare themselves at least ‘fairly satisfied’ with their lives, according to the 16 nation research mentioned in the previous paragraph.

·        A statistical digest of 146 studies by Marilyn Haring, William Stock, and Morris Okun suggests that gender accounts for less than one percent of overall well-being.

·        Alex Michalos and Ronald Ingichart summarize newer surveys of 18,032 university students across 39 countries, and conclude the same.

Women report slightly higher happiness than men when we look at positive emotions. On average, though, men and women experience roughly the same level of happiness.

Not Race

European-Americans experience only slightly more happiness than African-Americans and, according to the National Institute of Mental Health, rates of alcoholism and depression among Blacks and Whites roughly equate. Race and ethnicity poorly predict happiness.

Not Wealth

Money and wealth doesn’t predict happiness either:

·        The extremely rich experience only slightly greater happiness than the average.

·        An increase in a culture’s affluence doesn’t increase the happiness of its people. Compared with 1957, Americans have twice as many cars per person – plus microwave ovens, color TVs, VCRs, air conditioners, answering machines, and $12 billion worth of new brand-name athletic shoes a year,’ Americans feel no happier now than in 1957: 35% declared themselves ‘very happy’ in 1957 compared to the slightly smaller figure of 32% in 1993.

·        A steady increase in a person’s income over 10 years leads to no more happiness than if the income remains fixed.

Happiness guru Professor Michael Argyle of Oxford Brookes University maintains that once your income is roughly average for the society you live in, having more money will not make you happier in the long term.’

Apart from situations of dire poverty, for example in the very poorest countries. Obviously, anyone who has ever worried about paying the mortgage or affording their children’s christmas presents is in no doubt that money problems and poverty cause great misery. Money troubles are also the single most important source of rows between partners, according to research by couple counselling charity Relate.’

The absence of wealth ‘can breed misery,’ write Myers and Diener, ‘yet having it is no guarantee of happiness.’

Not Health

Whether we’re happy or sad can make a huge difference, not only to our mental and emotional well being, but also to our physical health. We can follow all the right health advice but if we’re not happy, the chances are we won’t be all that healthy either.’

There are clear relationships between mental and emotional states and the release of a whole range of hormones which govern our body reactions. If you feel anxious, there are very clear effects on your body. For example, you may get high blood pressure, headaches, palpitations and fatigue. What’s more, it’s a loop system so, if we don’t heed the warning signs, those hormones then influence our next mood and perpetuate the problems.’

Express writer Dr Craig Brown researched the connections between mind and body for 10 years at his NHS practice in Littlehampton. ‘Our basic finding was that, at the root of much illness, are five negative thought patterns: anger, guilt, worry, possessiveness and depression. The way you deal with the big challenges also affects your health overall. All sorts of changes can be stressful – anything from moving house or job to getting married or divorced; death and bereavement. How we cope with ageing, accidents and also the way we deal with illness itself are also challenges.’’

The way you feel has been shown to play a role in conditions from heart disease to headaches and colds, allergies to arthritis. ‘Peptic ulcers, which if they perforate can kill you, can be brought on by an accumulation of life stresses such as family or work worries, also irregular eating patterns and smoking which tend to be responses to being worried,’ says Dr Brown.’

In my own nutrition practice, I found a link between unhappiness and digestive troubles. Happy people seem far less likely to suffer with symptoms such as heartburn or constipation. If we allow sadness to ‘eat away at us’, one of the first areas of the body to suffer is the gut.’

One reason why anxious worriers and people under pressure seem to suffer so many digestive problems could be that they literally ‘can’t stomach any more’. A churning stomach – and a peptic ulcer – can be related to ‘undigested’ stress.’

 If, on the other hand, you smile, laugh or make a joke, the balance immediately swings in favour of the feel-good chemicals in the body and the brain. If you actually change your thought processes – your outlook on life – this balance is maintained.’

Something as simple as deciding to turn your mouth up at the corners rather than down will send out different messages to your body. Even if it isn’t spontaneous, the action of putting your face into ‘smile mode’ still sends positive messages to your cells and helps to rejig your perspective. When you tighten your facial muscles into a smile, the blood flow to the brain cools down which, researchers have found, makes us more relaxed.’

It’s a great time of year to clear out old stuff such as guilt, resentments and worry over things from the past, to let go of hopelessness and helplessness, and also to forgive ourselves and others. Not only will you be happier, freer and more positive, you will be healthier all round.’

A glass can be half empty or half full, depending upon your viewpoint. If you see yourself as worthless, overworked, always under pressure, always put upon, never in the right place at the right time, always tired and not worth bothering about, you programme yourself so that everything stays that way. People who say: ‘I always get two colds a year’ will probably always get two colds a year. Say: ‘I never catch colds’ and you hardly ever will.’

One’s attitude, especially happiness, can clearly help make for health. We may think that health makes for happiness, but this isn’t necessarily so. Ill people can, in some cases, be within their happiness set range.

Not High Events

## Oxford: A story of a person whose happiness level descended to normal after a positive event.

Maybe in an average everyday life, our happiness does stick at roughly the same level. But what about the momentous events – like winning the lottery or giving birth to a first child? Surely, these have a long lasting effect?

Consider Rose Marie Lajoie, a Michigan Lottery winner: ‘If you are a negative person to start off, if you are a dull person to start off, you’ll be the same way after winning the lottery,’ she says. ‘If you went out and bought a Ferrari, a swimming pool and a new wardrobe, you’d get a great buzz but it would not last for ever.’ ‘But if you can’t believe that the Ferrari and the pool and the clothes won’t make you happy, then consider a recent survey by Camelot of people who won more than £50,000 on the lottery. It found that only half felt the money had made them any happier at all.’ ‘Also, there was no link between the amount of people’s wins and their levels of happiness.’ Momentous events alter our level of happiness for a short time – the 50% non-genetic variation in happiness over the short term allows for this – but we quickly adapt and so the long term set range remains unaltered.

So many people plan their lives for a distant goal,’ explains David Lykken. ‘They believe that if they become C.E.O. or win a gold medal, their lives will rise out of humdrum ordinariness. This isn’t so. There’s a rush of glory and then it fades.’ This sounds familiar. We all recognize that euphoric feeling when we attain something precious – a coveted job or college degree, perhaps – yet the feeling doesn’t stay with us long. All too soon, we forget and move on, our eyes firmly fixed on the next goal.

We’ve all had circumstances change for the better as well as worse. We’ve received love, approval, and presents; passed exams and got jobs; bought clothes, cars and homes. We thought they were going to make us happy forever. But sure as night follows day, we lost our joy again and started looking for new ways to change our circumstances.’

We need to understand that changing outer circumstances – partner, job, home, car – is almost never the route to being happier. You only need to think back to the thousands of times your circumstances changed to realize that change alone is not the solution to your problems.’

Not Low Events

## Oxford: A story of a person who bounced back after a tragic event.

What about the desperately tragic – losing a spouse or becoming permanently paralyzed, for instance. Does this affect happiness over the long term?

Surprisingly, the sting of tragedy disperses equally fast. A study of car accident victims in Michigan reported that only three weeks after suffering a paralyzing spinal cord injury, victims felt happiness as the overriding emotion. Research by psychologists Ed and Carol Diener at the University of Illinois indicates that even quadriplegics and others with severe disabilities describe themselves as happy. Reports from friends, family, and interviewer ratings corroborate these findings, as do more objective reports from the disabled themselves – they can remember more good than bad events in their lives, and report experiencing more positive than negative emotions day to day. This evidence supports David Lykken’s prediction that, ‘Christopher Reeve superman, the movie star paralyzed by falling from a horse is probably as happy now as he was before his accident.’

Neither Ups Nor Downs

Another study by researchers at Northwestern University and the University of Michigan compared a sample of Illinois lottery winners, individuals who had suffered crippling accidents, and a control group that had escaped both fates. They found that the lottery winners generally felt less happy than the control group, and that the disabled people felt much more happy than expected. Changes that we naturally associate with major emotional upheaval – positive or negative – like starting a new job, getting married, or moving house made no difference to happiness levels – scores for people who had experienced these changes remained as stable as for people whose situation stayed much the same.

Day-to-day events do affect our happiness, but only for a short time. Diener puts a time on how long it takes people to adapt to events like gaining a promotion or losing a lover. ‘The effect on people’s mood is gone by three months, and there’s not a trace by six months,’ he says. The more recent the event, the greater its influence. The emotional results of extreme events hang around only a little longer than the day-to-day ones. Expect the effect to have dispersed within a year for more serious events like divorce, bereavement, or unemployment. The effect can last longer, of course, but this tends to indicate a clinical disease such as depression that overrides the customary set range. ‘It’s because in some sense the bad event continues to happen – there are reminders every day,’ according to Diener.

Short-term mood swings, as determined by circumstances, differ from long term happiness, as determined by the genetic set range or base line. ‘The ‘slings and arrows of outrageous fortune’ clearly influence mood,’ explains Greg Carey, a behavioral geneticist at the University of Colorado, ‘but long-term equilibration to life’s ups and downs is partly a function of the slings and arrows of genetic fortune.’

Why? Adaptation and Opponent-Process

Why doesn’t happiness increase with economic success? Why doesn’t our level of happiness change with our life events?

Two psychological principles help explain why our happiness returns to its previous level.

Consider the first, the process of adaptation. Our happiness relates to our social as well as to our personal experience: we compare our income, our looks, our intelligence, and our success with our social contemporaries. How we feel, therefore, depends on whom we use as our contrast. As our circumstances change, we change whom we use as a comparison. When we become better off, for instance, we raise our standard for comparison. This results in the descent of our level of happiness to its original point. When we feel threatened or demoralized, on the other hand, we tend to make a comparison with those less fortunate than ourselves. This raises our spirits. Adaptation works downward as well as upward, and it operates over the long term.

Besides adaptation, another process helps create the relativity of happiness. It operates over the short-term. Richard Solomon suggests, based on studies of both human and animal emotions, that an opponent-process principle operates: emotions provoke opposite emotions. Depression may well up after we return from holiday; elation may hit after we confront and conquer a terrifying situation, like a parachute jump; euphoria may surge after the pains of labor. We experience at these times something akin to a high from drugs. Cocaine makes users feel good by infusing their brains with excitatory neurotransmitters. It also reduces their natural quota of these neurotransmitters so that they dive into depression once the drug level drops off. After a high, a low. After a low, a high. ‘Even in the short run,’ writes Myers, ‘emotions seem attached to elastic bands that snap us back from highs or lows.’ We return to our set range.

Exceptions to adaptations and opponent processes do exist. Traumatic experiences like rape, child abuse, or war can induce permanent problems. Nearly half of the Vietnam veterans involved in heavy fighting now suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder. Flashbacks and nightmares haunt them and they experience insomnia and lapses in concentration. Combat stress doubles a Vietnam vet’s risk of suffering bouts of anxiety, depression, or alcohol abuse.

Limits to This Search for Happiness

There’s a limit to how far the pursuit of happiness benefits us, though, just as there’s a limit to how far the child can chase the toy before keeling over. As Steven Pinker points out in his book, How the Mind Works, ‘The problem is, how much fitness is worth striving for? Ice Age people would have been wasting their time if they had fretted about their lack of camping stoves, penicillin, and hunting rifles or if they had striven for them instead of better caves and spears.’ We need to decide what we can reasonably attain and we can gauge this in two ways, according to Pinker: by noticing what others have attained and by noticing how well off we are now. What others have attained gives an insight into what we might attain for ourselves. This kind of comparison gives rise to the ‘keeping up with the Joneses’ mentality – when Mr. Smith glances over the fence and sees that Mr. Jones has a glittering new greenhouse, he feels that he must have a greenhouse just the same. We always want what others have. By taking stock of how well off we are, we can reckon on being able to achieve just that little bit more, and more, and more....These two standards of comparison help ground evolutionary theory’s forecast that ‘a man’s reach should exceed his grasp, but not by much.’ ???there’s something wrong here with the placement of the quote???

Conclusion

## This leads onto the spiritual chapter by now asking what other human traditions say about this question of what is happiness and why we always want more.

Psychology also tells us about things that fail to make us happy. Happiness doesn’t rely significantly on external factors: economic class, age, gender, education, or race.

The first part of John Templeton’s principle 31E 25(4) summarizes the above collection of research on happiness:

A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances.

That’s the biological ## ???biological or something else??? story. Other traditions in our culture also provide stories about what happiness is.

Perhaps the key to happiness lies in spiritual traditions. After all, they store the accumulated human wisdom on many things including happiness – a major factor in human life. Our cultural understanding of what makes us happier fails. Do the spiritual traditions more correctly tell us how to be happier? What do the spiritual traditions say about happiness?


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Chapter 5:
Religion Stories

## My tussle with religion:

·        traditional Christianity

·        all my phases at CH

·        parish work

·        chaplaincy

·        Concord

·        s&r movement

·        etc.

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The most devastating indictment on my religious system of meaning came from the way I handled sex and relationships with women.

My first love affair that got anywhere close was with Sonia. She was 13 and very sexy and I was 15. We both sang in the church choir. So did her mum and her sisters. Her father had a radio show, telling stories from the good old years of the British army. I phoned her for a date – with extreme nervousness and trepidation – and she said yes. (I had decided that one ‘no’ meant that was it; I shouldn’t try again.) Dad let me use the car, a near-new Holden with a three-speed steering column gearshift, and I had only just got my driver’s license. I picked her up at her house and we went to the movies, I can’t remember which one or what happened during it. To her house then for a cuppa and then, the big moment, back to the car and THE KISS. The experience sent thousands of volts through my nervous system and set me up for desiring for several generations to come. I drove home. Her house has since been demolished but it stands in my memory as the most wonderful high point ever built.

Sonia said no to my next ultra nervous phone call and I never recovered. I continued for many years to imagine my dream girl and me walking down along the stream that flowed near her house and kissing and feeling and…one never knows but could always imagine where we might have gone. It wasn’t to be. Instead, I just imagined Sonia and tried to visualize her with no clothes on. Instead, Sonia had sex with just about every boy I knew, including Ray (whom I thought no girl would ever won’t because he was tall and thin and geeky and didn’t fit the Romeo model at all) who extolled it to me one day (not knowing my overriding passion that then had blazed in my imagination for several years), saying she was pleased because at last it was legal for her. I asked him where they did it and he described doing it in her bedroom and that her folks didn’t seem to mind. She evidently was pretty good at it too, worse luck.

No other girl in my teens fit my Sonia goddess model. I dated several more, some of whom started to match her, but most of whom are lost in the depths of my memories.

At 19, I still had not felt a girl, I still didn’t know where the vagina is, and I still didn’t know how to have sex. My guide to enlightenment was a newsprint brochure on sex put out by the students’ association. Drawings showed my where the vagina is located, how the penis goes into it, what ejaculation and orgasm are, and the position that most women like best (she on top). I even read about masturbation for the first time. Life began, though I was 21 before I first had sex.

Every day at college, at five in the afternoon, we theologs (our term for seminarians) had mediation in the chapel. Apart from when I had physics labs, I would go. I had to. I read theological and meditative tomes, I thought, my toes froze, but most of all I wrestled and wrote my wrestlings in a journal (which my second wife, Mary, later made fun of so I them out). I wrestled with the demon (literarily, demon) sex. Am I bad to desire? Yes, say the books: sex or heavy petting is only for within marriage and only for when procreation is intended. Am I bad to desire? No, says my conscience. But desire whom? To desire my wife once married to her is good; to desire other women is bad. I couldn’t help and can’t help desiring: it’s good, I concluded. I just need the right woman to desire. I want to know what her lips feel like to kiss; her body feels like to hold and rub my hands over; what her nether regions look like, smell like, taste like; what it’s like to put my….Religious mediations inevitably landed me back at my source.

I entered my marriage with Christine at 21 with an overly driven and overly suppressed sexuality. In addition, my religious system of meaning also let me down in my relationships with women.

Marriage, I believed, is a sacred contract that I can’t break. The Mothers’ Union in New Zealand, part of the Anglican Church, had to decide whether to admit divorcees. It said it could, and promptly the world body of mothers’ unions kicked it out. While I didn’t believe in the punishment of divorcees or the children of divorced parents, I believed that this wasn’t something for me and I believed I ought to teach this sanctity of marriage.

I left Christine and faced a nightmare in my own mind and, I believed, in my relationship with the church. I didn’t. Yes, many people believed I shouldn’t have left her and I ought to hurry back. I felt estranged from the church, but I think that was more my feeling than the reality of the church peoples’ attitudes toward me. What it did mean was that my sense of meaning didn’t provide me a good feeling about myself and my decision. I had no road map to follow that could tell me how to behave and to feel about myself, except condemnatory. The path of my life forked: I could either stay with Christine and face an unfulfilling future (I used to half-jokingly talk about my collecting garbage for the Dunedin City Council, in what they then called ash cans – small metal cans because bags and plastic containers weren’t allowed) or I could go off with Mary and start a new life where my focus could be where my heart lay: in exploring ideas, writing, and teaching. The latter, according to my upbringing and religion, of course was selfish. The counter to this was that my gifts were God-given and, like Jesus’ parable of the talents – a theme that frequently came up for me – I am obliged to do what I can to develop and use them. I opted for this second path and therefore my religious system of meaning condemned me. What could or did replace it?

The inability for my religious meaning system – even the liberal version I tried to live into after my late teenage rebellion against received  dogma – to guide me adequately through these vital issues of life probably undermined it more than did anything else. I’m pretty sure I can’t revive it.

 


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Chapter 6:
Spiritual Stories

##Structure

Theme:

The cultural presumptions about what brings long-term happiness are wrong. Where else might we turn for ideas about how to become happier? One source is the spiritual traditions. They have been saying for a long time what they think happiness is and how to reach it. Because of their variety, however, they do not present a consistent story about the road to happiness.

Tension:

Is there a spiritual route to greater happiness?

Lead: 

Happy days.

Hook: 

Is this correct?

Ending:

Lots of clashes between spiritually suggested ways, yet followers probably happy. Resolve the above clashes with a way being worked out in the next chapter – the camellia model.

Oxford:

The story of Mr Bean (comedian) and his neighbor over their New Year celebrations may be such a case. Is also suggested lead for chapter 4.

Questions and ideas to pursue:

·        Print out my MT01 chapter on Christianity and see where I start in on this.

·        Rebecca’s work in EP22.

·        Say these are caricatures and very skimpy over the history of the idea.

·        Put in the years for all the people following.

·        I could assess each approach as I do it from the point of view of the modern understanding of happiness as subjective well-being and the relation to wanting more and how to get it. What would moderns say to each approach?

·        even happiness in the afterlife seems to be what we want now

Culture fails to tell us the way to greater happiness. Can the spiritual traditions fill this gap? Research suggests that those who find salvation are some of the happiest people around,.

Oh happy days, Oh happy days.
When Jesus washed all our sins away.

Some believers find that life picked up when Jesus saved them and that it’s been better ever since. Do other spiritual and philosophical traditions agree with this type of sentiment? ## Start the chapter with: happiness = subjective well-being; happiness comes in genetically determined set ranges; want to be high in our set range; how to do this. Spiritual contribution to this (see summary).

Socrates

Theodore Kaczynski, better known as the Unabomber, might consider himself happy – he remained true to his anarchist ideals, publicizing his views via a string of bombings which he plotted from his hand-made cabin in Montana, and, even more amazingly, eluded capture for 17 years. No way, says Socrates, the ancient Greek philosopher. Theodore Kaczynski can’t experience true happiness because his conscience needs attention. He believes in certain ideals, and became powerful though acting violently on those ideals, but misguided beliefs, power, and violence don’t equate with the true good or true happiness. The Unabomber has mistaken these things for happiness and heads down the rocky road to misery.

Socrates avowed that the soul, or conscience constitutes the person, and that our happiness depends directly on the good or bad state of our soul. Happiness is living the good. We must know what the true good (or true happiness) consists in if we want to live happily, says Socrates, otherwise we will mistake things that aren’t really good for the true good. We always act on what’s truly good, he says, once we know what this is. To do otherwise would be to favor misery over happiness, which makes no sense.

Plato

Other early philosophers built on Socrates’ notions of objective goodness and knowledge of the good leading to enactment. Plato’s Republic introduces a discussion of the nature of justice with the following Tolkien-esque puzzle: a ring renders its wearer invisible – what reasons could the wearer have for acting justly? Invisibility provides the wearer with the chance to get up to all sorts of mischief. How many of us, if presented with such an opportunity, can honestly say that we wouldn’t take advantage of it – by nipping into Sears for a spot of cost-free shopping, for example?

Platonic justice involves a perfect balance between the three elements of the soul: reason, emotion, and desire. In a just (and so good) person, the soul exists in perfect harmony, with reliable reason governing over the more unpredictable emotion and desire. The good person finds great joy through pursuit of knowledge.## ???what is happiness here??? In fact, the greatest happiness in this life comes from intellectual speculation or ‘doing’ philosophy, according to Plato. Philosophy professors can appear some of the most rational, emotionally barren people on the block, many students might agree. But would they also agree that this state can lead to happiness?

The wearer of the magic ring will have this reason for acting justly, concludes Plato: wanting to do right because it’s right, for the sake of justice alone. Intellectual speculation tells us so, and in this way we feel at peace with ourselves and the gods. Goodness or justice in this life leads to happiness.

These thoughts extend to the afterlife. The human soul is immortal and the just will receive their greatest rewards in the life to come, even if poverty, discomfort, or illness mar their current lives. Plato’s Phaedo indicates that the true philosopher attains utmost joy only on retracting from the senses and carnal distractions. The philosopher genuinely experiences the final goal – purity of wisdom – only upon fully quitting the body. Bodily desires and frustrations act like a straitjacket and restrict our capacity for happiness.

Aristotle

Aristotle’s Ethics moves away from impersonal moral absolutes (doing right because it’s right) to what is most conducive to a person’s good. Aristotle, like Socrates, nominates gaining happiness as the highest good, and characterizes it as the soul acting in accordance with virtue. Children enter our world with the capacity to learn both moral virtues (governed by the irrational elements of the soul: emotions and desires) and intellectual virtues (governed by the rational elements of the soul).

Aristotle, like Plato, proclaims intellectual contemplation the greatest happiness available to humankind. Reason constitutes the highest virtue humans possess since it distinguishes us from other animals. Because happiness qualifies as the soul acting in accordance with virtue, the greatest happiness must accord with the highest virtue. A thirst for knowledge and love of books leads to greater happiness than vegetating in front of our favourite game show or demolishing another TV dinner. Aristotle allows more than Plato, though: acting in accordance with moral virtues can produce happiness, but of lesser quality. Thirst for knowledge even outstrips doing a good turn for a stranger.

Augustine

The kind of themes raised by the ancient philosophers enjoy a new lease of life in the work of early Christian theologians.

Augustine of Hippo (354-430) supplemented the Christian scriptures and their moral commands with a cogent, methodical philosophy of ethics. He transformed Plato’s view of the intellectual soul into a Christian view: we identify with our souls, while using our bodies to obtain spiritual ends. All the good deeds that we uncomplainingly perform in this life – giving money to charity, or helping a friend in need – add up to a one-way ticket to our future happiness. Happiness persists as the greatest human goal, claims Augustine, but this takes on a new meaning: reconciliation of the soul with God in the life to come.

Augustine shifts the emphasis to happiness in the hereafter: we struggle in this life to gain eternal happiness in the next. Down with academia, he chants. Philosophical or intellectual contemplation can never lead to true wisdom and happiness. Up with altruism, he cries. Only loving God and one’s neighbor (living a morally virtuous life) guarantees a future of never ending happiness by God’s side.

Aquinas

The Scholastic philosopher, Thomas Aquinas (1225-74), also sought to reconcile the philosophy of the ancients with Christian doctrine, and his work became part of the ideology of the Roman Catholic church. He adopted a teleological view of morality, like Aristotle (a morality in which we direct all our efforts toward one ultimate moral goal), naming happiness as the ultimate end which humankind seeks to attain.

Aquinas follows Augustine and replaces ‘intellectual contemplation’ with ‘love of God’ in the equation ‘greatest happiness = intellectual contemplation.’ We strive to know God in this life, but our struggle only ceases in the life to come. Heaven becomes our reward for loving God. It’s the only source of true happiness.

Aquinas diffuses this position a little: by living a virtuous life, we attain some degree of happiness, albeit inferior to the purity of eternal happiness. We gladly accept refreshments en route to the winning post, like athletes running the New York marathon, but, once we cross that line, the euphoria of success eclipses everything else.

The teachings of Augustine and Aquinas color contemporary Christianity. Their theorizing about happiness permeates today’s spirituality.## ???Luther, Calvin???

Contemporary Christianity

Contemporary orthodox Christianity loses sight of the here and now, focusing instead on happiness lying someplace else – a land of original bliss and innocence (the Garden of Eden) or of future joy (Heaven, our eternal and happy home where we will see God face-to-face, or the Promised Land where we will find happiness and complete satisfaction). ‘Heaven is destination and reward,’ writes David van Biema, ‘succor and relief from earthly trials.’ Adds Jeffrey Russell from the University of California at Santa Barbara, ‘Heaven is an endless dynamic of joy.’ A friend with a staunch Roman Catholic upbringing talks of her constant sinning because she fails to say grace before every meal, pray every night, and attend church as often as possible. She feels she must overcome this tendency through acts of penance to achieve happiness in the afterlife.

Modern spiritual leaders like Robert Schuller prefer to focus on happiness in the present. He writes about The Be Happy Attitudes: Eight Positive Attitudes that Can Transform your Life. Such charismatic and Pentecostal movements assume that religion intends for happiness. Happiness is nearness to God. We move close to God through the ‘happy clappy’ world of human togetherness, epitomized by hallelujah crying and hymn singing.## Tillich???

Confucianism

Not only Western religions and their philosophies focus on happiness. This motif plays a significant role in Eastern spiritual thought too.

The ancient Chinese philosophy of Confucianism teaches that not pleasure, honor, nor wealth, but virtue alone produces true happiness. Much weight rests on the notion of the family, where the life of each individual continues those of his or her ancestors, a link in the familial chain. Pursuit of happiness in the next life isn’t the primary concern. Confucianism instead encourages us to seek to expand, revitalize, and strengthen our families by living frugally, working hard, spurning selfish desires, maintaining a respectable position in society, and generally leading a virtuous life. Self-control, self-improvement, and the practice of moral virtues dominate.

Welfare of the individual gives way to welfare of the family, social group, and even the entire human race for the Confucian. Individuals must share their successes with the group. We can achieve ultimate happiness by giving to society, and so by living virtuously. Happiness results from ‘knowledge, benevolence, and harmony of the group.’ The suited yuppie, cell phone in hand, symbol of late 1980s Thatcherite Britain and Regan U.S., with its underlying slogans of ‘greed is good’ and ‘all for me’ represents the Confucian’s worst nightmare – the very antithesis of Confucianism.

Taoism

Taoism represents a second major school of thought in China that influenced Chinese art, literature, and religion. Taoists taught that ultimate happiness arises from gaining the original perfection of the Tao (or the Way). The Tao encompasses the ideal way of life in which we live in perfect harmony with the forces of nature. Early Taoists believed that their ancient ancestors possessed the primitive Way, but later lost it. The Tao needed rediscovering.

Taoists laud qualities such as receptivity, passivity, and humility, and they advise a life of natural simplicity and detachment from worldly pursuits. One of the earliest Taoist texts, the Chuang-tzu (Master Chuang), suggests that perfect happiness can’t be found on earth. What we call happiness isn’t true happiness. Money, power, beauty, and fast cars – the things that we ordinarily pursue vigorously – won’t bring happiness. Ultimate happiness for the Taoist consists in a downshifting from this rat race of materialist living. Ultimate happiness consists of ‘inaction.’

Happiness occupies pole position in Chinese life. The Chinese believe human beings can’t obtain happiness solely through their own actions because Ming (or fate) plays a role. They venerate Fu Shen, the god of happiness, and recognize the bat (fu) as the emblem of happiness.

Buddhism

The Buddha (born 563 B.C.E.) preached four Noble Truths:

·        Life is suffering.

·        Suffering involves a chain of causes.

·        Suffering can cease.

·        A path to cessation of suffering exists.

We all suffer because we want to retain a sense of our own identity, yet everything in the world is impermanent or transitory, and lacks a soul. People comprise aggregates or bundles of psychological elements (thoughts, feelings, sensations) and physical elements (arms, legs, head, torso) – no ‘person’ or self exists over and above the constituent parts, nothing acts as a container for these parts. Our longing for personal identity leads to a repeated cycle of death and rebirth (the ‘Wheel of Becoming’) which causes painfulness and suffering in life.

Understanding that we don’t have a permanent self or ego leads to cessation of suffering, according to Buddhist thought. By abandoning all forms of worldly desire (including the desire to attain release from the Wheel of Becoming), we move towards nirvana, the final release from the cycle of rebirth. Along the path to nirvana we must adopt the virtues of clarity, lack of desire, and universal compassion and friendliness. We finally reach nirvana through selflessness, literally through annihilation of the illusion of the self. Nirvana represents freedom from desire and frustration, pain and suffering. It represents ultimate happiness.

Happiness features in Buddhism in two other ways. The word sukha stands in opposition to dukkha, which conveys the suffering and pain of mortal existence. Sukha denotes pleasant bodily and mental feelings, and is important because it facilitates successful meditation. A happy mind is a concentrated mind, for the Buddhist.

Buddha Amitabha rules over Sukhavati (‘the Blissful’), his creation. People who worship Amitabha and repeat his name may be reborn in Sukhavati, and live there blissfully before entering nirvana. The sutras (practical summaries of the Vedic scriptures) devoted to Amitabha describe Sukhavati as a paradise filled with glory from Amitabha – exotic, bounteous, filled with beautiful flowers, trees of jewels, and wonderful fragrances. Rivers of sweet waters flow by carrying flowers – their flow is music. Beauty and comfort reign. No corpses, beasts, or hells mar the sumptuous landscape.

Waking in a lotus flower represents rebirth in Sukhavati for the faithful. All our wishes are granted here, and we no longer experience pain or sadness. The greatest happiness arises from hearing Amitabha preaching before our final entry into nirvana.

We should understand Sukhavati, in its deepest sense, as depicting a state of mind. The descriptions, although graphic, are only figurative. Sukhavati seems to share much in common with the Christian conception of Paradise, but it doesn’t represent the ultimate destination or perfect happiness for the Buddhist, merely a half-way house. Only the nothingness of nirvana equals escape from the suffering of life. Only nirvana equals pure happiness.

Hinduism

Hinduism also advocates withdrawal from the world of pleasure or desire. But its underlying philosophy differs from that of Buddhism.

Hindus believe in universal determinism or the doctrine that past events determine future ones (Sadam Hussein’s refusal to co-operate with UN inspection teams resulted in a US military threat, for example) and in the reincarnation or rebirth of individual souls to eternal life. These beliefs merge in the doctrine of karma: we bring all suffering and happiness upon ourselves. ‘What goes around, comes around,’ as the popular adage declares. Performing a morally good deed in this life notches up greater happiness for the next – and vice versa for an evil action, according to the great celestial abacus. Karma ensures that it is not God, but us, who pre-determine the quality of our own future lives. Hindu philosophy places literal interpretations on karma; slanderers are supposedly reincarnated with bad breath, for example.

The Samkhya system of Hindu thought distinguishes the world’s many selves from the one nature (or world): many eternal centers of pure consciousness versus a state of continuous flux. Nature comprises illumination, kinesis, and inertia, and we experience these three elements as pleasure, pain, and torpor. Our centers of consciousness mistake themselves for more tangible entities like human bodies, sense organs, and intellects, which they see as experiencing pleasure, pain, and torpor. But these entities actually belong to the unity of nature, and our experiences rest in pure consciousness alone. This mistake leads to our suffering.

We can arrest our suffering, suggests the Yoga system of Hindu thought. We must liberate our minds from their objectifying tendencies by discriminating between the self and nature in meditation. This allows the self to return to pure consciousness. Our suffering ceases and we attain happiness.

Islam

By the soul and Him sic. who formed it,
And implanted into it its wickedness and its piety!
Blessed is he sic. who purifies it.
Ruined is he sic. who corrupts it.

This passage taken from the Qur’an (holy book of Islam) demonstrates the Islamic belief that we are born, as clean slates, with the capacity for both good and evil. God molds this capacity by testing us throughout our lives: some of us opt for good, others for evil. God acknowledges our choices in the form of eternal reward or punishment at the Last Judgment.

And We try you with evil and good as a test; then unto Us you will be returned.

Those receiving eternal reward enter al-janna (the garden), the home of the blessed. The blessed live in luxury surrounded by rivers of milk, purified honey, and sweet tasting wine. They relax on couches, drinking, attended by wide-eyed maidens and sport fine, richly woven garments. Life here lasts for ever.

Islam, unlike either Hinduism or Buddhism, understands al-janna (the afterlife) as a paradise where the righteous enjoy the highest of spiritual and sensual happiness. Muhammad’s prophecy captures the spirit: in Paradise believers will own a pearl tent, sixty miles long, with a family in each corner, and two gardens containing silver and gold vessels.

##Judaism

Conclusion: Spirituality and Happiness

The concept of happiness abounds in spiritual and philosophical thought – from the teachings of the ancient Greeks, through to contemporary Christianity, as well as in such traditions of the East as Buddhism and Taoism. Happiness plays a pivotal role in spiritual thought – a variety of traditions describe its nature in spiritual terms. The major spiritual traditions invoke conceptions of happiness. Many speak of happiness in the afterlife, while others discuss happiness in the here and now. We experience happiness in this life as a result of virtuous thoughts and deeds, and we secure ultimate happiness in the life to come through a combination of that righteousness with faith in spiritual reality. They describe happiness, however, in spiritual terms. Sometimes, they want us to shun happiness in the here and now and take the hard road. Modern religious popularizers in the West propose that an active and committed spiritual life leads to happiness and success in our earthly life. To their eyes and to those of millions of contemporary Christians, the Bible paints a picture of a gracious and loving deity who desires everyone’s happiness. Happiness arises directly from God. Contemporary orthodox Christianity, on the other hand, focuses on happiness lying someplace else: in the afterlife in heaven. Some traditions involve notions that many of us find alien, even incomprehensible. How can a Christian understand the Buddhist idea that the void of nirvana represents ultimate happiness?## ???Scientific input ® diverse and contradictory approaches. Yet all must work to produce happiness. So, it can’t be in what they say to do, in their claims to truth.

Give a sense of the divergence of understandings of how to be happy and how they contradict each other. Do these paths themselves lead to happiness? Many of their adherents must have been happy, so the answer is no. The point now is how to understand this; we can’t take the paths themselves at face value. We need a larger scheme to hold them all as truthful. Then a consistent way to happiness might emerge.


MT15: 16 February 2004

Chapter 7:
Travel Stories

## Despite my resume and my travel schedule, I'm not happy from them.

·          the need to travel, though

·        perhaps I could explore the psychology of this

·        escape?

As I go about my life at Oxford I see lots of different people who raise for me the question of happiness: the old man and others in the motorized wheelchairs, the beggars, the drunkards, the aristocrats, the dons, the students, the working class, the shoppers, the teenagers, the tourists, the bus loads of school kids from the Continent,…, and the US students studying spiritual thinking because they feel that it is what they want to do to make themselves happy. I came here to be happier.

Hook: 

What is there about Oxford that they – and I – feel will make them happy or happier?like the theologs, I came here as well with a spiritual sense of mission – to follow my true spiritual self. Therefore, how can we become happier in a way that’s true to our inmost spiritual selves?

We’re all aiming at happiness, everyone in the above groups. What do we need to do to make ourselves happy? What is happiness? What does it have to do with the spiritual path that a person follows? Am I, or the theological students, following a spiritual way?##


MT15: 16 February 2004

Chapter 8:
Conflicting Stories

## Structure

Summary:

Despite this, we cannot ignore the role and wisdom of spiritual traditions. How do they contribute to the contemporary discussion about the nature of happiness? Unfortunately, spiritual thinkers usually react negatively to the scientific understandings of happiness, if they react at all to it. They could, rather, try to build together with the scientific perspective to produce one coherent spiritual-scientific understanding, along the lines of what I call the camellia model.

Tension:

Not only is there a contradiction between the spiritual traditions, but between them and science. How might we resolve this tension?

Lead: 

Mr Bean story.

Hook:  

There was no mutually agreeable solution. No happiness for the contester. Similarly for the spiritual traditions against science?

Ending:

The camellia model can lead to a working harmony.

Oxford:

Mr Bean story

Outstanding Points and Questions:

Assume the current understanding of happiness but compare it with those of the traditions (even happiness in the afterlife seems to be what we want now; also mentioned in chapter 3).

Clashes

## Oxford: Story of Mr Bean’s fight with his neighbor over their millennium parties (emphasize the conflict here). Both want happiness.

Religious and spiritual approaches to happiness clash in terms of definitions. The scientific definition of happiness centers on the notion of physical well-being. Scientists measure our happiness levels on the basis of our subjective self-reports of well-being – if we report feeling good, we’re happy. We might feel great after consuming our favorite dish, or when absorbed in a challenging game of chess, and these feelings constitute our current levels of happiness, according to science. Religious definitions of happiness concentrate on intellectual or spiritual satisfaction. Happiness, for the religious thinker, becomes an altogether loftier affair. We really have to work for our happiness, whether this involves an intellectual search for the good, or a struggle to fill our lives with virtuous thoughts and deeds, or a quest to lose our personal identity on the way to nirvana. Happiness, from the religious perspective, represents a noble prize.

Scientific and spiritual approaches to happiness also clash over matters of timing. Scientists concentrate firmly on happiness in the here and now – they show no interest in happiness in the life to come. Nor would we expect them to, given the current precepts of scientific methodology. Science deals with the physical world, and, once the human body ceases to function, or dies, science becomes silent. What may or may not occur after the death of the physical body lies outside science’s remit. Its materialist methodology means that scientists study human happiness only as a physical phenomenon. Religious thinkers also discuss happiness in the here and now, but in many traditions, happiness in the life to come really steals the show. We attain ultimate happiness, a seat by God’s right hand, our place in the pastures of al-janna after the death of our bodies. And, for those religions that concentrate on the afterlife, our future non-physical happiness far surpasses anything we can experience on earth.

Can naturalistic and spiritual accounts of happiness co-exist? Should we abandon one account in favor of the other? If so, which one? And why?

Many of us will instinctively feel that happiness must comprise more than biological drives and chemical activity. This feeling may be compelling. We should take our convictions seriously.

Do We Need the Spiritual?

Therefore, do we need the spiritual? End with: yes we do. We need both mutually relevant. So, how to solve the conflict so this occurs? Let’s see how spiritual thinkers respond.

Science Ignores the Spiritual

How do scientists and theologians react to this clash over the nature of human happiness?

Scientists take little notice of insights from spiritual traditions. Their ignorance reflects, at least partially, the demands of scientific methodology, as we discussed above. They consider their job the discovery of facts about the physical world and, since religion deals with the spiritual world, its insights have no bearing on science. The two worlds may co-exist, but they’re doomed, by definition, never to collide. The public also gives science a very easy ride: British people trust the word of scientists 59% of the time and that of religious organizations only 22%, according to a recent study on judging risk. Advertisers take advantage of this attitude embedded deep in our collective psyche, and ‘white coat syndrome’ abounds – actors parading as scientists proclaiming the efficacy of a product convince us to rush to the shops and increase the sales of numerous washing powders, toothpastes, and other household essentials. When people profess such confidence in your work and abilities, you feel you must be doing the right thing. It’s easy to see how complacency sets in. Scientists may well feel they have no need to cast a glance at spiritual insights into happiness; they’re already doing just fine.

The Spiritual’s Response: Let’s-Get-’Em

The stakes for religion in this conflict rate much higher, and its proponents show far more enthusiasm for defending their territory. Recent work on the science of happiness has provoked a number of different reactions from spiritually inclined thinkers. We’ve called the first the ‘Let’s-Get-’Em’ response. This involves a direct and sophisticated attack on  the methods and findings of behavioral genetics.

Journalist Sharon Begley points out that several claims for the genetic roots of various behaviors run into trouble because follow-up studies fail to replicate the original research. Researchers have cited the existence of single genes responsible for attributes as disparate as manic depression, schizophrenia, alcoholism, and novelty seeking, yet other researchers haven’t replicated these results, and in one case, researchers retracted their original claim. Two separate teams of scientists recently claimed a connection between a version of the D4 dopamine receptor gene, or D4DR, and an adventurous, excitable personality, which relishes new experiences. ‘This work....provides the first replicated association between a specific genetic locus involved in neurotransmission and a normal personality trait,’ they contend. Other teams have produced conflicting results. Work by psychiatrist Anil K. Malhotra of the National Institute of Mental Health in Bethesda, Maryland fails to find a connection between the specific version of D4DR and novelty seeking behavior in a group of 193 Finnish men. This version of D4DR also varies in frequency in different parts of the world, which makes it an unlikely candidate for causing such a widespread personality trait. ‘It’s unacceptably speculative to claim that large, heterogeneous populations would have an average difference in novelty-seeking behavior just because they differ dramatically in the frequencies of this gene,’ asserts Kenneth K. Kidd of Yale University School of Medicine.

While a number of claims for links between specific genes and personality characteristics may not hold up, others do. And Begley fails to mention the ones that do. Two independent teams of researchers, one at the University of Utah Health Sciences Center in Salt Lake City, the other at St. Mary’s Hospital in Manchester, England, have linked a specific gene to an aspect of thought, for instance: the deletion of the chromosome 7 gene, LIM-Kinase 1, disrupts our ability to visualise and mentally manipulate parts of objects. An activity such as putting together a piece of self-assembly furniture depends on this ability.

Begley further muddies the issue by concentrating on the so-called OGOD model of genetics, meaning ‘one gene, one disorder’ – a single gene alone causes a disease or, when extended to personality traits like happiness, a single gene underlies one personality trait. Researchers have now moved away from the OGOD strategy, suggesting instead that a configuration of genes shapes any given behavioral trait. Robert Plomin, a behavioral geneticist at the Institute of Psychiatry in London, explains: ‘Although any one of many genes can disrupt behavioral development, the normal range of behavioral variation is orchestrated by a system of many genes, each with small effects.’ Begley mentions that a claim for the genetic basis of neuroticism (or anxiety) awaits its follow up. The journal Science has since published the follow up, and this study confirms that anxiety does have multiple genetic roots. ‘Variance in personality traits, including those related to anxiety, is thought to be generated by a complex interaction of environmental and experiential factors with a number of gene products,’ psychiatrist Klaus-Peter Lesch and his co-workers claim. Dean Hamer, one of the authors of the study, later expands, ‘We think there may be ten genes altogether that influence anxiety. But there may be a hundred or a thousand.’

We must, of course, view studies which can’t be replicated with extreme caution. Yet the picture isn’t nearly as bleak as Begley paints it. Researchers do replicate studies, and, more importantly, failure to replicate can even lead to increased knowledge – like the realization that, though the OGOD model may not extend to behavioral traits, multiple genes acting in concord do affect behavior. Genetic explanations remain basically sound.

Begley refers to a second line of attack which critics often launch, this time against twin studies. Much of the genetic-basis-of-happiness research draws on twin studies, since the difference in percentage of genes shared between identical and fraternal twins (100% versus 50%) enables scientists to calculate heritability of traits, as we saw in the previous chapter. Biologist Marcus Feldman of Stanford University points out that identical twins share many more external influences than fraternal twins: people tend to treat them alike, their parents dress them similarly when young and they continue this trend themselves when older, and they often create their own private fantasy world to the exclusion of other people. Fraternal twins, on the other hand, typically behave no more alike than other siblings. ‘Whenever you measure heritability this way using twin studies, you are glossing over the fact that the similarity of environments for identical twins is much greater than it is for fraternal twins,’ Feldman says. Greater concordance of happiness levels between identical as opposed to fraternal twins may have at least as much to do with shared environment as shared genes. Feldman’s account misses out one vital fact, however – researchers not only look at identical twins reared together, but also those separated at birth and reared apart. And these studies reinforce those conducted with non-split identical twins. Similarities between split identical twins can appear stunning, as David Lykken and his co-workers illustrate: ‘A pair of male identical twins, at their first adult reunion, discovered that they both used Vademecum toothpaste, Canoe shaving lotion, Vitalis hair tonic, and Lucky Strike cigarettes. After that meeting, they exchanged birthday presents that crossed in the mail and proved to be identical choices made independently in separate cities.’ Evidence like this deflates Feldman’s objection.

A University of Pittsburgh team led by Bernie Devlin recently suggested that the environmental effect extends further.  Even twins separated at birth share an environment: the womb. Devlin’s team believes that the uterine environment accounts for 20% of the IQ similarities between twins, and 5% of the similarities between regular siblings, which reduces the genetic effect. The same theory presumably applies to other traits, such as happiness. We need much more research to support this claim. Scientists disagree on exactly how, and to what extent, life in the womb affects the person-to-be. Other questions arise. Does the womb constitute an environment, in the sense that we usually understand the word? Can other (genetic?) factors counteract the uterine effect? Even with exact answers to these questions, no one denies that our genes (in combination with other factors) affect our behavioral traits.

Grant Steen, a medical researcher at the Saint Jude Children’s Research Hospital in Memphis, expresses concern that scientists calculate heritability in one population group, say white male twins, and simply apply these statistics to quite different groups, say black male and female nontwins. Since different population groups experience different circumstances and life situations, automatic transferral of results breeds suspicion, he feels. Steen again misses an important aspect of twin studies – they use a highly representative population sample: ‘Some of the twins did not reach the eighth grade, whereas others have doctorates; they live on farms, in small towns, in big cities, and in foreign lands; their socio-economic levels are representative of Minnesota-born adults,’ explain David Lykken and Auke Tellegen. Even though Lykken and Tellegen’s twins are predominantly white, psychologists David Myers and Ed Diener recount independent evidence showing that levels of happiness, at least, do not vary dependent on either race or ethnic group.

Lawrence Wright throws further doubt on twin studies in his recent book, Twins: Genes, Environment, and the Mystery of Human Identity, in which he recounts the puzzling case of a pair of identical twins: one healthy, the other with a fatal version of the genetic disorder muscular dystrophy. John Burn, the doctor examining the case, concluded: ‘Even though they the twins share the same genes, a genetic trait doesn’t have to be shared.’ We must clearly exercise caution with twin studies. In the case of happiness, however, we have evidence from psychological studies of individuals as well as twin studies to support the existence of a genetic set range. Also, muscular dystrophy is a disease involving unequal distribution of faulty genes, whereas happiness is a normal trait of healthy human beings – it’s not obvious that we can draw a useful parallel.

Scientists used to assume that identical twins were born in the same gestational sac and non-identicals in different sacs. Wright points out that DNA testing has proved this reasoning faulty – roughly one third of identical twins are born from separate placentas, and occasionally placentas belonging to fraternals merge. He concludes: ‘Many same-sex twins who believe that they are fraternal may actually be identical, and vice versa.’ This observation by Wright doesn’t sound against the twin studies on happiness. The bulk of the confusion concerns identicals who are really fraternals. Those fraternals mistakenly placed in the identical pool will decrease the degree to which identicals apparently attain the same level of happiness. Statistics for identicals attaining the same happiness levels are already high (44% as opposed to 8% for fraternals) – if some of these identicals are really fraternal, the statistics should rise above the 44%. We need ideally to compare the old results with new results employing the new criteria for distinguishing types of twinhood, but at the moment it looks as if even more support for the heritability of happiness springs from the confusion.

The Spiritual’s Response: There’s More than Genes

Other critics concentrate on the ‘There’s-More-To-Us-Than-A-Bunch-Of-Genes’ response. This involves subjectivist arguments which stress that behavioral geneticists like Dean Hamer reduce the wholistic human experience of happiness to nothing but the action of genes, electrical activity, and chemicals. These critics aim to push anti-reductionism, claiming that geneticists and their popularizers ignore the real subjective realm by confounding human experience with mere physical phenomena. Walter Freeman of the University of California at Berkeley, for example, says, ‘Joy comes with activities that we share with people we have learned to trust, and that enable us to share meaning across the existential barrier that separates each of us from all others. So happiness is not made by a chemical.’ Scientists can stimulate our brains with electric currents, and we may report feeling pleasure, but happiness doesn’t consist in this. Neither does it consist in the elation people feel after taking recreational drugs, like amphetamines or cocaine. ‘There is more to brain function than chemistry or electricity,’ Freeman concludes.

Writes Mark Epstein, ‘True happiness is the ability to receive pleasure without grasping and displeasure without condemning, confident in the knowledge that pain and disappointment can be tolerated.’ ‘It’s worse to wake up in the morning without having a larger purpose in life,’ says developmental psychologist Carol Ryff of the University of Wisconsin, ‘than to wake up unhappy. Just feeling good is a poor measure of the quality of a person’s life.’ A truly satisfying life comprises a cornucopia of which the pursuit of happiness forms only a part. Behavioral genetics oversimplifies the reality.

These subjectivist responses lack substance. Neither do they contradict behavioral genetics. Remember that Hamer’s and his colleagues’ work only suggests genes provide a percentage of input into behavior. Hamer claims that 80% of our happiness depends on genes in the long term. That still leaves 20% for all sorts of other influences to make their mark. And we still move up and down the 80% range in our own personal set range. ‘Though genes may determine our average set range for happiness, they don’t specify where we are within our individual range at any particular point in time.’ Our moods, our minds, and our volition can all play their part. Geneticist Robert Plomin considers that genetic variation almost always explains less than half the variation in human behavioral traits. Genetic and subjective explanations may co-exist.

The Spiritual’s Response: Let’s-Have-’Em-Both

The ‘Let’s-Have-’Em-Both’ response represents a more sophisticated version of subjectivist criticisms. Proponents admit the validity of results from behavioral genetics and other sciences, but they set up a dualism: on one side lies the mind with its feelings and sensations, and on the other lies the brain with its neurotransmitters. They create a unique spiritual status for happiness, which they thereby divorce from the biological stuff of genes and brains. The ghost in the machine. The early French philosopher René Descartes (1596-1650) advocated mind-body dualism in his Meditations. He famously claimed ‘cogito ergo sum’ (‘I think, therefore I am’), meaning that in essence he comprised a thinking being (or mind) which didn’t depend on anything material (the body) for its existence. The world comprises two incompatible substances, for Descartes: mind or consciousness, and matter. Since our brains and bodies form part of the material world, they can have no part in our essence as thinking beings. Descartes soon realized, however, that mind and body are not as distinct as his theory implies: they constantly interact. When we fall and break a limb, our bodies suffer damage. Yet as a consequence of that damage, we feel pain. Physical events constantly produce mental effects. And we can say the same of happiness. When we build trusting relationships, perform virtuous deeds, or share sex with a special partner, we engage in activities which depend on our physical natures. Yet all these activities can result in the experience of happiness. Happiness depends on both physical and spiritual aspects. Failure to acknowledge this closes spiritual thought off from the exciting opportunities behavioral genetics offers, while preventing spiritual traditions from offering insights to scientific investigations of happiness.

The Spiritual’s Response: Let’s-Hope-It’ll-All-Go-Away

One last ditch response to scientific explanations – the ‘Let’s-Hope-It’ll-All-Go-Away’ approach – employs avoidance tactics. Spiritual thinkers play a wait-and-see game: we will only approach gene studies seriously when and if someone else adequately answers all possible criticisms. These tactics look suspiciously like blind panic – akin to closing your eyes tight on approaching a busy road junction, then pumping on the gas pedal. While later research may modify the current results of the gene studies, the bulk and significance of the work will probably remain. It’s a good bet that more and more evidence will mount showing a (partial) genetic basis for such traits as human happiness. And, given the rate of progress with the Human Genome Project, this will happen quicker than we think.

Conclusion: Working Together

We’ve reached a happiness stalemate. Neither the scientists nor the theologians will give way. Neither party recognizes the other’s contributions as valid, or even relevant. They converse at cross purposes, if they converse at all. The result: voices raised in anger, an unhappy conflagration. This needn’t be so. We’ve already begun to see how scientific and spiritual approaches to happiness might co-exist – the genetic set range still leaves room for mind, free will, and spirituality. Determinism doesn’t necessarily rule the day. We need to build on, not deny, this compatibility. But what concessions must each side make? Do the genes of the spiritually enlightened predispose them toward great happiness? How do genes and neurotransmitters relate to an afterlife? We should try to answer questions like these if we want to move beyond the conflagration. Scientists and theologians need to stop their bickering, and instead work together towards a richer, more meaningful account of the nature of human happiness.

Other Approaches

## Oxford: Arthur and Keith

Perhaps thinkers who engage science in their spiritual deliberations address this discrepancy. Not so. Mostly fail to consider the subject other than in passing and then they spiritualize it into some realm unrelated to biology. How can we understand spiritual views about happiness in the light of its scientific nature? Does spiritual reality want us to pursue happiness, and does spiritual reality reward us with it in this life? How does spiritual reality relate to human happiness? I look at what modern thinkers say about this, those who engage science in their spiritual deliberations – people like Clayton, Drees, Hefner, Kaufman, Peacocke, Peters, Polkinghorne, and Ward. Most pass by the subject and, if they address it at all, they write of it in spiritual rather than biological terms. Unlike these thinkers, we should rank happiness as a central subject because it is a prime concern of human beings.

Theologically, it will converse with the best arguments available in the market. I don’t think any of them start where I do, though, and probably little is to be gained from them.

A Better Relationship between Spiritual and Scientific Thinking

## Therefore, we need to start afresh ® model, how to work toward a relationship of mutual relevance. ???Camellia model. I could us the stuff from the MT01 book that I’ve put into the recent paper presented in Oxford??? The camellia model suggests a living system, something that isn’t static but of constant movement from science to spirituality to science, and so on, between the sciences and different branches of spiritual thought (in fact, to all parts of all aspects of knowledge).


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Chapter 9:
Place Stories

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·        Mount Taranaki
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Chapter 10:
Telling Stories

## Structure

Summary:

Most spiritual traditions want us to be happy and tell us – using the best of their science or cosmology – how to achieve it. We would say now, though, that happiness evolved into us as something we want and seek to achieve. Evolution is as much a spiritual phenomenon as a biological or physical one because the spiritual and physical are inseparably intertwined. Therefore, if we want to live in a truly spiritual way, we should try to achieve happiness. Since scientific research suggests to us how the world including ourselves operates, it can – and does – suggest what we can do to become happier. Science’s doing this tells us how we can become spiritually happy. If we want to know how we ought to live spiritually, look to scientific research.

Tension:

Spiritual and scientific: I.e., $ the challenge of method, how to resolve it.

We have seen, over the last couple of chapters, that divergent accounts of happiness exist. On the one hand, we have the scientific story with its materialistic talk of genes, neurotransmitters, and electrical impulses. On the other, we have the variety of spiritual stories with their talk of intellectual contemplation, virtuous living, and a bounteous afterlife. They clash over what is happiness and how to achieve it. I’ve taken happiness to be subjective well-being and, while I think that the various traditions really are aiming at this meaning in their definitions of happiness, how they understand the road to happiness differ. The traditions appear to contradict in their approaches.

##$ in us a spiritual sense that helps us achieve happiness. Use ‘spiritual sense’ because some forms of happiness go beyond the physical (eating) and ® the spiritual, because it’s too complex to reduce to a single explanation, because it’s important for us to accept this spiritual sense. Religions and certain traditions have attempted to contain this spiritual sense so that we may be happy. What are some techniques/skills/activities for getting at our spiritual selves to decipher what makes us happy? // Show how the various traditions used earlier achieve this. Most spiritual traditions want us to be happy and tell us – with the best of their science or cosmology – how to achieve it. (Not part of argument; just rehash.) // How biological and spiritual understandings of the nature of happiness compare – can I say that both are right and it’s a matter of finding how to be happy? Both stories are, in general, right if we think of divinity in an immanent sense. Others are attempts and old ones – and we do the same with tools available to us.

A seeker of happiness is one aspect of who I am, but who I am is largely in modern times (always?) a seeker of happiness. Being happy is the chief goal of life – never reached for most of us.

They can’t give us a pill to make us happy....We create our own joys, and we feel happiest in learning to trust each other.

Is this true?

## I’ve suggested a camellia way of trying to build a single coherent way of understanding, a way that builds on diversity of viewpoints and is ongoing in its growth. But how? What can the camellia model do? What might it tell us about how we might become happier? // Is there a spiritual way to happiness? Yes. i.e., how to be high in our set range; in particular, what part might spiritual traditions play in this?

Camellia ® Bacon’s method. I’m proposing a similar method. // Somehow what I need for this part of the chapter is more than this: it’s a revolution in method: Francis Bacon! I’m suggesting using the scientific method à la Bacon. Bacon’s and my folly?Roger Bacon versus Francis Bacon. // Bacon’s folly. Is mine a folly? I’m proposing a similar method. My folly? See when as much water passed under mine as his.

Happiness Evolved into Us to Achieve

## Argument starts here.

We now would say that happiness evolved into us as one thing we want and should seek to achieve. // Happiness evolved into us by the work of spiritual reality and forms the ‘good’ for us. // If I say, ‘spiritual reality is happiness,’ what sort of statement am I making? Am I making an ontological statement about spiritual reality being happy or the source of happiness? It’s really a shorthand for the universe having evolved us entailed in the phrase ‘spiritual reality is’ and that a main evolved thrust of ours is to be happy i.e., ‘spiritual reality is happiness and wants us to be happy.’ // Bring in from Chapter One.

Below are three steps to help build from here a camellia relationship.

The Spiritual

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The Origins of the Universe

Cosmologists usually trace the origin of the universe to the big bang, the gigantic explosion and fireball that began the universe between 12 and 20 billion years ago. But what caused the big bang?

Physicist Edward Tryon of Hunter College in New York suggests the big bang started from events at the quantum level of something called ‘the vacuum.’ This vacuum contains nothing, not even space or time. So what can we say about it? Very little. We do know it possesses infinite energy (something physics usually ignores) and that microscopic particles materialize in it and then instantly annihilate each other. One of these fleeting fluctuations flashed up the big bang.

Even if Tryon’s idea holds up and the vacuum produced the big bang, darkness still surrounds the origin of the vacuum and the laws by which the quantum universe operates. Big bang cosmology says nothing about their origin. Several physicists imagine, however, that something more basic than the big bang, its products, physical laws, or the vacuum does or did exist. From it, the vacuum and the laws emerged, and these in turn produced the big bang.

Before throwing ourselves into the search for the ‘something,’ we need to confront our language. Discussion about the beginning of the universe stands on shaky ground. We want to talk about actions before the big bang and the provision of existence to the universe, but the meaning of such words as origin, beginning, created, acts, happened, and before arises from the way they apply to the ideas of time and space, in particular the notion of time passing. Before, for instance, means ‘stands in front of’ spatially or in time. Since time and space only started with the big bang, the phrase ‘before the big bang’ is senseless. Language breaks down when talking about a supposed something that happened outside of time and space. What does it mean, then, to say that something produced the big bang?

Perhaps the phrase ‘the origin of the big bang’ is meaningless. Should we give up in despair and cease all talk of objects or beings or events outside space and time? No. Though we fumble in our language, we nonetheless should humbly assume we can understand this talk, that it makes sense. But we should proceed with caution. We should tentatively apply words to a situation without space and time only after we study them and how they fit: What do the words mean in the new setting? What meanings fail to carry over to the new situation? What dangers lurk in the new use? Because of this problem with words, David Bohm studied his language of the underlying order and changed the language as a result. Perhaps proof that we do understand the words and use them correctly will lie in how well our theories hold together. We also can look at the value and soundness of any conclusions that emerge. We can test the language, subject it to experience and reason. The system of spiritual ideas that this book unravels is such an experiment and probe. It accepts the invitation.

Starting with Something

Now we are ready to ask, What is the something that produced the big bang?

The Restaurant at the Beginning of the Universe doesn’t serve a ‘free lunch’ – or breakfast, for that matter. However many times we ask the question of the origin of the universe and however many layers we push it back through, we always end with something unexplained. Theories leave some matters unjustified; each starts with something. Willem Drees develops this point in his book Beyond the Big Bang: Quantum Cosmologies and God. The big bang theory assumes four things about the universe, he tells us: the laws of physics, the three dimensions of space and one of time, the conditions of the universe at its initial moment, and the existence of the universe. The nothing from which the universe arose is, in Drees’s words, ‘not an absolute nothing.’

Stephen Hawking employs the anthropic principle to explain the pre–big bang something. At the base of a universe lies a set of laws. Just as changing the combination of ingredients for a cake leads to different tastes and textures, so different sets of laws produce different universes. The anthropic principle shows that the evolution of creatures able to probe natural laws requires a special environment in the universe and, the Cambridge physicist adds, only one theory of cosmic beginnings or one set of laws leads to a universe with those special settings. Since the inquisitive creatures (namely we) do exist, cosmologists must choose that theory. If we want our cake to taste sweet, we must include in it a form of sugar. Thus, this universe could only possess the laws it has. Hawking also concludes – adding a further difference between his theory and the others Drees looks at – that the universe could only start with the initial conditions it did. Physicist David Schramm of the University of Chicago roots for Hawking: ‘You just have to say: in the beginning before the big bang, there was mathematical consistency. Everything else follows, including us.’

Notice that Hawking’s argument assumes the preexistence of a form of logic, what Schramm calls ‘consistency.’ Hawking’s cosmology tweaks the imagination. It also helps solve a problem.

Our usual idea of time and space assumes a shape or structure (a ‘geometry’) for the universe, writes Bohm, that builds on the mathematical idea of a continuum or a line. Remember drawing a line in geometry? You had to keep your pencil on the paper or else you broke the line into several segments. A line flows continuously. It comprises an infinite number of points lying side by side. And remember marking a dot to indicate a point? Though your pencil spot occupied space, it only approximated the real point, because the real point took up zero room. Thus, points can lie very close together and their pencil marks coincide but the points remain distinct. The space-time continuum declares that events fall at different points and even those very close together can be separated. On the other hand, quantum theory demands that the opposite pervades the universe: no matter where they lie on a line, no matter how distinct they appear on the sheet of paper, points connect with each other.

I’ve seen watches advertised that not only tell the hour, minute, second, date, day, and year for here and every conceivable place on the globe, but they also act as a stopwatch, an alarm clock (with several settings per day), and a radio and automatically adjust themselves when daylight savings time starts and finishes. But faced with all those options, I doubt I would ever figure out and remember what all the buttons do and how to operate them; the excess of features would interfere with my basic needs for a watch. The space-time continuum also possesses too many features, and these interfere with attempts to understand what happens from the point of view of quantum physics.

To shop for a pen, you must decide among different colors, widths of line, gold or plastic, short-life or long-life, three colors in one or a single color, a box of twelve or a single unit. Or you could purchase the basic, no-frills store brand for less than the others. If none of these suit you, you could always grab a piece of charcoal from the remnants of last night’s fire. Princetonian John Wheeler introduces the ‘pregeometry’ to replace the continuum with its surplus of features. The pregeometry resembles charcoal in its bare-bones quality; the continuum compares to a name-brand pen with a fluorescent barrel and medium point. A preexisting form of logic, the pregeometry creates a more basic structure or geometry than the continuum, without its problems. Both relativity and quantum theory assume the existence of the pregeometry.

Rather than using Wheeler’s penetrating yet speculative word pregeometry, I opt for the more neutral and simpler term: subuniverse. The pregeometry is a subuniverse. Physicists may disagree with Wheeler over what the big bang requires, whether it calls for a geometry or for, say, a primitive form of logic. They may agree, however, that it requires something and that the something embraces at least the subuniverse. Wheeler travels a different path to the same conclusion I draw from Hawking: the preexistence of a basic form of logic.

Besides a prelogic, something else preexists, as Drees points out:

Even if theories are perfect and complete, they do not answer the question of why there is anything which behaves according to those theories. The mystery of existence is unassailable. It remains possible, therefore, to understand the Universe as a gift, as grace.

Something bestows existence on the universe, raising it from a conjecture that may or may not happen to a reality. Hawking similarly notes,

Even if there is only one possible unified theory, it is just a set of rules and equations. What is it that breathes fire into the equations and makes a universe for them to describe? The usual approach of science of constructing a mathematical model cannot answer the questions of why there should be a universe for the model to describe.

The mystery – the gift of which Drees writes and the fire to which Hawking refers – plus a preexisting logic from which the laws of the universe develop lie in the subuniverse. They provide the universe, Wheeler writes, ‘with a way to come into being.’ The subuniverse gives existence to the universe, and its actions are the laws of nature.

Exploring the Subuniverse

A child, once born, can live without its mother. The subuniverse conferred existence on the universe, but then what happened to the subuniverse? We usually think the universe grants itself existence through time and imparts reality to its laws, that it, in other words, assumes the function of the subuniverse. Did the subuniverse shut down with the big bang? To survive, a person – a baby, especially – needs other people. Perhaps the universe similarly requires its subuniverse. After all, time and space don’t apply to the subuniverse, because it exists outside them and creates them. Public resolve and money set up the local fire brigade, and it will exist and operate for the foreseeable future because the original act includes daily financial backing. The subuniverse’s initial provision of existence is the same as supplying it throughout time. One act covers all time because the act continues on forever. The subuniverse produced the universe and its parts. It continues to give them existence moment by moment, and its continuing acts of empowerment we describe as the rule of natural laws. The subuniverse pumps as the heart of the universe.

Besides a statement like this, what words describe the subuniverse? In several articles, Bohm and Basil Hiley show how the underlying order of wholeness satisfies Wheeler’s search for a pregeometry. The order produces existence for the universe and everything in it and operates by logic; as the universe’s mother, the underlying subuniverse continuously gives it birth and rationality throughout time. It may provide it with more as well. You might recall these Ash Wednesday words: ‘Remember thou art but dust, and to dust thou shalt return.’ The underlying subuniverse forms the dust to which the universe we experience returns for ceaseless resurrection. The unfolding-enfolding theory provides a rich language for exploring how the subuniverse created the big bang and continues to endow the universe with existence.

Relating the Universe and Spiritual Reality

As the universe derives from the Divine, so, many spiritual traditions would say, it reflects directly and intimately basic characteristics of the Divine. We can apply this to the laws or reasoning of the universe and the Divine. As the features of the pot reflect the mind of the potter, the basic laws of the universe arise from the Divine and reflect the Divine’s own reasoning. Spiritual tradition associates creation with the rational mind of the Divine. Thomas Torrance, a Scot, emphasizes something else as well. The universe arises from not only the Divine’s reasoning but also, Torrance points out, from the Divine’s creative power. The existence of the pot, not just its features, reflects the ability of the potter to construct from raw materials. In Hebrew, the name of the creator is YHWH (Yahweh, or Jehovah) or, translated into English, the one who ‘brings into existence whatever exists.’ These two properties of the Divine, logic and fruitfulness, are properties of the subuniverse. The subuniverse mirrors the essential properties of the Divine.

Like many others, you may think the Divine initially created the universe from nothing, say through the big bang. Spelling out this doctrine, however, leads to debate, even hostility, as in the creationism fracas. What does ‘from nothing’ mean? Did the Divine form it from primordial dust, the void of Genesis 1, back in 4004 b.c.e. (the date of creation the Irish prelate, James Usher, worked out in 1650)? Or is our universe a bounce back from the big crunch at the conclusion of a prior universe 15 billion years ago? Did it slither out of a wormhole connecting it to another universe? Beneath these disputes, believers do agree on something: the universe and everything in it depend for their original existence on the Divine. Everything is, in a word from tradition, ‘contingent’: the Divine decided to produce them and did. The subuniverse approach says much the same: the subuniverse gave existence to the background vacuum and the laws of quantum physics, and thus to the universe.

‘The Divine creates out of nothing at the beginning.’ ‘The Divine continuously accords existence to the created universe, moment by moment.’ In many belief systems, the creator role of the Divine divides in two: the creator and the sustainer. ‘To sustain,’ defines Webster’s, is ‘to keep in existence.’

Nothing in nature arises out of nothing. Everything in it emanates from something else, the product of strings of generations, each of which unfolds from the underlying subuniverse. Robert Russell suggests that this idea of Bohm’s resembles the spiritual belief that everything depends for its existence on the Divine’s sustaining power. Just as anything in the universe of our experience exists because of the continuous unfolding of the underlying subuniverse, so, for believers, the existence of anything relies on the continuous and creative activity of the Divine as its sustainer. The Divine causes the universe to exist and to perpetuate. The Divine continually produces each item, relationship, and feeling; the Divine carries out everything, produces everything (subjective, objective, or from any other category), gives it existence moment by moment, and is responsible for all changes or nonchanges in each object and system, moment by moment. The Divine achieves this by unfolding the potential that is of the Divine. It pumps as the heart of the universe. Thus, the suggestion that the Divine is the subuniverse yields the traditional doctrines of original creation and of continuous creating and sustaining. It wraps flesh around the word sustainer.

But, you may think, events happen because of natural laws. The universe is a self-determining, self-empowering, self-existing, and self-perpetuating entity; it grants itself existence through time and imparts reality to its laws. It carries out everything itself. You may concede that a subuniverse performs these functions, but still you would think of it as natural.

So, what causes the universe to exist and behave as it does: the universe itself, or the divinity as the subuniverse, unfolding existence through every moment of time and point of space? Both. The subuniverse Divine is that aspect of the universe that gives it existence and causes it to behave consistently. The force of natural laws lies in their attachment to the subuniverse Divine. They don’t refer to Platonic-like powers that exist at different level than the universe. We need to evict the separation between the Divine and the universe and thus quash the dual agent answer to the question of what brings everything about. Even the usual understanding of the sustaining function of the Divine enshrines this separation, this philosophy of independent objects, because it thinks the Divine holds things in existence while remaining apart from them. We incline toward the image of ourselves acting on objects outside of ourselves. My fingers touch the keys of my computer, for instance. But, what if we think of my fingers operating on their own? They then become an aspect of the keys and my thoughts transfer directly from my mind to the screen. Similarly, the Divine acts in a law-like manner to unfold from the divine self the regularities in how things affect each other.

The subuniverse divinity resembles a basic hamburger: just the meat and plain white bun, no ketchup, pickles, sesame seeds, mayonnaise, lettuce, tomatoes, relish, onions, pineapple, or cheese. At this point, I abstain from adding meanings to the basic functions for the Divine (that the subuniverse operates according to a form of logic and that it dispenses reality to the universe and effectiveness to its laws). I abstain from adding meanings such as the Christian belief that the creator becomes a particular human being, Jesus Christ. I start from scratch.

But, does this generate a redundant idea for the Divine? If the word applies to everything, then it’s empty, a tautology like the statement ‘all water is wet.’ It says little to claim the Divine causes everything. Does it make spiritual ideas, as the Dane, Viggo Mortensen, phrases it: ‘nothing but words – words that we could just as well do without?’ Though the idea of the Divine and the idea of the subuniverse fit harmoniously, would that of the universe suffice?

A hundred years ago, the idea of ATM cards made no sense. Slide a plastic (what’s that?) card with a magnetic (magnetic?) strip into a machine and money appears? It knows the balance in your account? Circumstances change and, along with them, our experience and our language. The lack of language for something says naught about its existence.

This is also true for the image of what underlies the universe of our experience. To offer meaning for our lives, the idea of the Divine requires more than the creator and sustainer functions. A basic hamburger may knock the edge off your appetite, but it will fail to zing your taste buds. It’s difficult at the moment to say exactly what will emerge as we expand the language. If we slowly build an appropriate language, matching the growing experience of the reality with our words and ideas, the subuniverse picture of the Divine may turn out as real and as useful as ATMs and plastic cards. Far from superfluous, as Mortensen might claim, the idea may inform and include more functions (inspiring worship and grounding values, for example) than could scientific theories. Such spice for the creator assumption will emerge as we further explore the Divine.

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What is spiritual thought really about? What is its subject? Really, it’s about human life and making sense of living. Its object, what it centrally talks about, is spiritual reality (otherwise known as ‘God’; the reality called ‘God’). ‘Spiritual reality’ is the lens, the hard core theory, through which spiritual thought peers at and tries to make sense of existence.

We need a new story that makes primary the reality of the human, not making matter primary (or at least not only that). Yet I need to bring out also that matter is endless depths and mysterious. Margaret Wertheim agrees with the problem as I see it. But I think she and others have an inadequate view of matter, that she’s bought into the materialists’ definition of matter.

How to Think Spiritually

This chapter introduces the method that I’ll use to reach my conclusions about the nature of happiness and the relationship between happiness and spiritual reality. I.e., about how to bring the human side specifically into our understanding of spiritual reality.

My method: How this works is based on science (especially to our being what we should be) with spiritual reality being the Universe-as-a-Whole.

Some of the ideas about theological method that I carry with me include:

·        spiritual thinking is about model making;

·        ‘spiritual reality’ is the lens through which spiritual thinking looks at reality;

·        spiritual thought is subject to experience – the experience it is based on  is public and repeatable;

·        everything is potential data for thinking spiritually.

## Note concerning this last point… Religious experience, practices, morality, meaning, purpose, faith healing, etc. as natural phenomena i.e., a natural spiritual reality. Spinoza? Whitehead?

The Spiritual Works as Evolution

## Say how this is the next step in developing my method.

Evolution is an aspect of the spiritual at work.

My big assumption.

Laying the Groundwork

The previous chapter asked us to search for values to inform our lives in tune with the divinely unfolded universe. I suspect we will find a clue for this in the history of the universe, in the way it has developed since its inception.

Tucked away in reflections on his and David Bohm’s metaphysics and physics is Basil Hiley’s observation that the beginning of the universe introduced nonlocality. All particles in the universe locked together nonlocally, meaning that all simultaneous quantum events associated with them correlated with each other. Locality had yet to exist. It emerges from the laws of physics applied to an expanding, big bang universe: only when the universe began to expand did fission happen, the particles collide, and eventually locality appear. Locality and separation go hand in hand.

With the expansion appeared the macro universe. Almost everything here relates in a local or classical manner, with the exceptions usually occurring below it, at the quantum level. As expansion continues, locality increases. As the universe increases in size, it proceeds from nonlocality to the existence of locality to the dominance of locality. Locality is required for a macro universe and, therefore, us to exist.

The scene Hiley paints depends on the universe not turning back to how it existed previously; the universe proceeds in one direction, plotting an irreversible course through time. ‘You can’t go home again,’ writes Thomas Wolfe. Drop the concrete block you lifted, and you lose the energy you exerted when raising it.

Locality generally exists at a lower energy level than nonlocality because locality represents less organization. To start with, it fails to correlate distant and simultaneous events. Science calls this relationship between energy levels and degrees of organization the Second Law of Thermodynamics: entropy (a measure of disorder) always increases. The universe continuously winds down, scattering its energy right from the initial moment of the big bang.

The terms locality, nonlocality, and entropy relate in various ways, some of which we’ve discussed. Other terms require introduction, and further relationships between them merit examination. A picture begins to emerge of two sets of ideas: locality, the macro universe, and separation on one side, and nonlocality and the quantum universe on the other. The histories that await introduction balance the pairing on the nonlocality or wholeness side.

Increasing Complexity

One of the continuing events through time is the increase in separation, which is opposed by increasing complexity. Some parts of the universe join together rather than move apart. This reflects  fusion versus fission, of fusion of the simple to create the more complex versus fission and the emergence of locality to domination. The growth of children after they gain some independence from their parents resembles the growth in complexity in the universe. From childhood friendships with a strong dose of self-centeredness, children move out to friends in a self-giving way. Usually, they sooner or later find a life in a close relationship with a significant other. These relationships are formed from different people and experiences than those of their childhood, and they tie the world of the now-grown child into a web of relationships in which each person retains autonomy.

The universe began with extremely high energy and the tendency to lose it. It started out simple, eventually producing more complex objects, such as suns and planets that store and spend energy. We also see around us biological, social, even chemical and physical systems that increase in energy. A baby starts off small and simple but grows into a large and unbelievably complex teenager.

Ilya Prigogine describes a process by which a something can increase in complexity: an unstable system that uses energy and changes chaotically can settle at a stable point with a higher energy level. When you turn off a leaky tap, water at first swirls around the rim of the tap until it gathers enough stability to form a drip. Prigogine even shows the inevitability of such processes, given physical laws.

The growth in complexity of systems such as Prigogine describes assumes the irreversibility in the Second Law of Thermodynamics. In this, it mirrors a requirement Hiley notes for the move from nonlocality to locality. But critics point out that the Second Law means everything in the universe must run down and, therefore, not grow in complexity. They forget a factor, however. Babies grow larger and more complex by absorbing energy from plants and animals and the people around them. The plants and animals degenerate from structured tissues to the contents of diapers, and parents feel very weary. The complexity of a system increases at the expense of its environment; the surroundings accept more entropy to counter the system’s energy growth and stability. So, the net entropy of the system plus its environment increases, satisfying the Law.

You could think of your body as a collection of organs: brain, heart, kidneys, lungs, skin. These connect with each other to form, with other bits of tissues, the body. But they connect in such a way that the body takes on a life of its own. If one organ suffers, every organ suffers, and the body as a whole suffers. The whole becomes a person who experiences a life impossible for the bundle of organs. That the universe becomes more complex by fusion means some of its parts connect more and more with each other. Different elements join together to form a whole or a system, relating with each other more within the system than when out of it. An increase in a system’s internal connections characterizes its increase in complexity. Further, systems may merge together to form super-systems, which may merge to form super-super-systems. Individual people combine to form a community, communities combine to form a region, regions combine to form a country. Systems of systems also demonstrate the increase in the complexity of links.

A whole causes its elements to behave organically in clusters, all together, or individually, in ways that differ from how they would act by themselves. In subtle reflections of its wholeness, a complex system directs its parts in its self-regulation, self-maintenance, and defense. These actions of the whole exceed what interactions between the individual parts might achieve. Actions of parts fail to explain behaviors of wholes.

Locality appears when particles start to separate in fission, and later it dominates the macro universe. Nonlocality loses its universality. But does nonlocality emerge at the macro level when the simple fuse to form the complex? Complexity relates separated elements without immediate and physical contact. This could constitute a form of nonlocality, a ‘macro nonlocality’ of the locally related. This ‘nonlocality,’ though, fails to conform to the instantaneous, quantum type. To avoid confusion, I refrain from calling macro-level wholeness ‘nonlocal’ but instead say a type of connection or correlation or wholeness emerges at the macro level. (To confuse the discussion further, nonlocality at the quantum level may hold together complexity at the macro level. Consciousness occurs to me as an example, as the discussion of Roger Penrose and Stuart Hameroff’s model in chapter 7 suggests.)

Wholeness (through complexity) requires the emergence of locality because it needs the parts to link together. Wholeness-with-diversity emerges from separation.

Defining Evolution

Evolution is a history of the universe that builds on both increasing wholeness and the continuing emergence of locality, which creates even greater degrees of wholeness. As a word, evolution means several things.

·        Usually, it refers to the process called neo-Darwinian evolution, by which biological species emerge and change. Two moths on a tree illustrate the theory of evolution in childhood science books. One moth blends in with the bark and the other stands out. Industrial pollution has dirtied this species of tree, common in the area, and the original moth either changes its camouflage or else becomes fodder for its predators. Natural selection achieves the change in color and pattern by removing the moths with the original coloring and encouraging the variant with the darker markings; those that blend in survive their hunters, those that stand out don’t. And the survivors produce offspring with an increased tendency for the darker markings. Neo-Darwinism is a simple procedure that draws together existing processes: a species of reproducing organisms that varies genetically (perhaps by random mutations), plus natural selection or ‘survival of the fittest,’ which works on the variations.

Neo-Darwinism requires a way for genes to vary. As a source for this, biologists accept random mutations of genes through errors in their production or contact with radioactivity.

·        Scientists recently offered several other explanations for mutations, all controversial. Mutations can arise, for instance, spontaneously in cells and bacteria under pressure, as when deprived of nutrition. The organism generates the variations on which selection acts, and, in some cases, this mutating process appears adaptive. Hereditary diseases in humans involve some of these instances.

·        Evolution proceeds from an observation or a descriptive theory to become an explanation. We look for evolutionary explanations for phenomena and traits. For example, we explain the appendix as something that evolved to help us digest certain foods at a stage in our evolutionary history but which now serves no purpose. It’s harmless, and natural selection has yet to pressure our genes to remove it.

·        Biological evolution may require some organisms to move to a higher state of complexity and this may affect the genes, so the change passes on to future generations.

·        Hypothetically, suggests Lee Smolin, universes can reproduce through black holes. On the other side of a black hole exists a white hole into a universe and through which energy, stars, and other celestial matter emerge or explode. The more appropriate the conditions for the existence of black holes, the more black holes exist in the universe, and the more universes spin off the parent universe, each with a tendency for the prevalence of the same conditions. Natural selection tends to choose universes with the right conditions for the existence of black holes (or an abundance of black holes) and whose offspring universes possess the black-hole–producing conditions. As in this theory of Smolin, neo-Darwinism can apply to other aspects of reality than the biological.

·        One type of evolution, not neo-Darwinian, concerns the history of physical things from the moment of the big bang. Cosmology describes such development in the universe, and geology describes the physical development of the earth.

Plate tectonics tells part of this story. The earth’s crust divides into adjoining, moving plates that carry the continents embedded in them. About 200 million years ago, a supercontinent named Pangaea covered much of the earth and with plate movements split and resplit into the continents and islands of today. Lines of earthquake and volcanic activity mark the boundaries of plates. One kind of boundary occurs at midocean ridges, where tensions in the earth’s mantle pull open rifts, allowing new material to well up and weld to the edges of the plates. When a continent straddles such a rift, it splits apart, forming a new ocean area, such as the Gulf of California. Ocean trenches, a second boundary type, mark subduction zones where plate edges dive into the mantle, which reabsorbs them. A third type of boundary occurs where two plates slide past each other along faults (the San Andreas fault in California, for example). Mountain ranges such as the Himalayas rise where two plates carrying continents collide, or, like the Andes, where ocean crust slides under the margin of a continent.

·        Oxford zoologist Richard Dawkins introduces the idea of memes, the units of cultural evolution that individuals develop and pass on to others.

Examples of memes are tunes, ideas, catch-phrases, clothes fashions, ways of making pots or of building arches. Just as genes propagate themselves in the gene pool by leaping from body to body via sperm or eggs, so memes propagate themselves in the meme pool by leaping from brain to brain via a process which, in the broad sense, can be called imitation. If scientists hear, or read about a good idea, they pass it onto their colleagues and students. They mention it in their articles and their lectures. If the idea catches on, it can be said to propagate itself, spreading from brain to brain. As my colleague N. K. Humphrey neatly summed up in an earlier draft of this chapter, ‘Memes should be regarded as living structures. . . . When you plant a fertile meme in my mind you literally parasitize my brain, turning it into a vehicle for the meme’s propagation. . . . The meme for, say, ‘belief in life after death’ is actually realized physically, millions of times over, as a structure in nervous systems of individuals the world over.’

This sociocultural evolution can progress rapidly compared with biological neo-Darwinism. Changes in genes can take a long time to alter the genetic makeup and hence behavior of all members of a species. But ideas like the computer chip can surface in one day, spread rapidly, and stay forever.

We can chart these evolutionary histories from a human point of view:

·        Increasing entropy (the Second Law of Thermodynamics: irreversibility) – necessary for:

·        Locality – the emergence of the macro universe and therefore necessary for:

·        Increasing complexity – that appears necessary for, or at least associated with:

·        Evolution in its various forms.

Neo-Darwinian and other forms of evolution result from the expansion of the universe and the wholeness that the subuniverse represents. This is how the subuniverse unfolds through time.

Moving toward Greater Wholeness-within-Diversity

Evolutionary processes seem to move away from wholeness (quantum, nonlocal, whole), but they don’t. Two days before I wrote this, news broke of the discovery of life on Mars – incorrectly, it turned out – and a few months ago astronomers announced the existence of planets outside our solar system. Complexity grows and evolution proceeds throughout the universe. At this stage of its life, the universe moves toward a different type of wholeness than the quantum – though it may still involve nonlocality: a wholeness of internal connections that arises from the evolution of life and other phenomena, and from the development of complex systems.

The universe avoids a static status quo that sounds like the conservative politic of ‘what’s good enough for my grandparents is good enough for my grandchildren.’ The histories of the universe depict the universe moving in various ways, at present toward greater wholeness-with-diversity. A question immediately arises: Moving toward what end point? And that question becomes, What do these histories mean? What’s their significance?

Mutations and natural selection represent two natural processes that, when they work together, change the course of the universe. Tensions exist between the laws of the universe and its initial state, and from this tension the universe moves. Change need mean nothing more than this. Change may alter the universe without any larger significance. But why the tension in the first place? Why the potential for ‘history’ versus ‘maintaining the status quo?’ We think meaning must repose there. Another way to phrase this asks: If wholeness remains the aim of and the basic property of the universe, why pass through the process of separation?

Robert Russell asks if the order in Bohm’s universe leads to beauty, design, or purpose. If order occurs in what the subuniverse unfolds, does it suggest the intentional design of a creator? Perhaps this design implies that the creator means something by creating the universe. Russell thinks so. I disagree. The subuniverse model inspires a way to talk about the interaction of the Divine with the universe. But I fail to see in Bohm’s writings a clear picture of a purpose for the universe, of a movement of the universe toward a goal, or of movement in a specific direction for a purpose. In the Christian approach to history, the universe goes somewhere, from creation to its fulfillment. It moves from its genesis – ‘In the beginning of creation, when the Divine made heaven and earth’ – toward its salvation at the end of time – ‘Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth’ (Gen. 1:1; Rev. 21:1 NEB). The Divine holds a purpose for creation and works through the history of the universe and humanity to bring it about. In our Bohm-influenced scheme, the subuniverse unfolds itself into the universe of our experience and folds the universe back into itself. This flux doesn’t work toward a larger purpose. Neither does the movement of a piston in a car engine. Neither does the emergence of wholeness-in-diversity through the processes of complexity building and evolution. The last three words in Russell’s question, ‘beauty, design, purpose,’ reflect a hope we humans create because we want this as the endpoint of our inquiry.

Searching for Significance in the Movements of the Universe

To Offer Meaning for Our Lives

We still search for significance in the movements of the universe. Consider the relationship between the Divine and nonlocality. Does the Divine associate more with nonlocality and complexity than with separation and locality? Perhaps connections tune more into the Divine than does separation. As the sponsor of wholeness, the Divine may appear to favor them. But then locality and separation would act against the Divine. We might even call them evil, but, in fact, they don’t and aren’t. The subuniverse Divine is alocal; the Divine is neither local nor nonlocal. To suggest the evil nature of locality adds an unthought-out moral dimension to the Divine that I want to avoid. While the Divine does sponsor wholeness, including nonlocality, locality helps to achieve it. The Divine promotes locality as much as nonlocality. We need to look again for a basis for value and meaning because, as reiterated at the end of chapter 12, the locality nonlocality and wholeness separation pairs fail to reveal divine values in the histories of the universe.

Our abilities, including our mental capacities, evolved. In particular, meaning evolved and is specific to humans. Humans project this property onto the Divine. Events may Mean something (the divine, transcended form of meaning), but we don’t know what this entails. Thus, the histories of the universe possess no Meaning – neither does the universe, neither does a strawberry – other than what we provide. To ask for the Meaning of the histories is to project human categories too far at present.

But we need to project. What ought we to project then?

We evolved what and who we are. We emerge as a product of the tendency of the universe to increase in wholeness at the macro level, as evolving beings set in the evolving universe. The last chapters spoke of wholeness-with-diversity and the previous chapter said we need more resources on values. Wholeness-with-diversity tells us little about values. Clues to our nature and our relationship to the subuniverse Divine lie in our evolution. Values are social phenomena that appear deep in the life of all humans in community, perhaps throughout the existence of the hominid line. Meaning, purpose, morality, and the content of morals find their roots in our story.

I say: Happiness evolved into us by the work of spiritual reality and forms the good for us. We should try to achieve it. We should open ourselves to the insights of science (= spiritual reality’s ways) on how to achieve it.

Many factors – external, competing drives, etc. – inhibit our happiness, so when a spiritual tradition says, ‘Spiritual reality is happiness,’ it is also saying how we might increase our happiness. This is a scientific matter that may draw upon spiritual wisdom as hypotheses, for instance – see the conclusion in my Bohm book in helping to develop our wisdom about happiness. Spiritual thinking needs science.

Traditional spiritual terms need translating.

The sciences are spiritual thought and morality rolled into one.

Spirituality Leads to Happiness Seeking

## Therefore, if we want to be truly spiritual =spiritual reality’s way for us, we should try to achieve happiness. This is also trying to achieve spiritual happiness.

Say how this is the next step in developing my method.

Spiritual terms have no meaning outside us and to know about that that is outside ourselves and creates the systems (i.e., Spiritual reality) can only be known through the results of that creating.

Explain the logic here.

‘If we want to be truly spiritual….’ This is the big choice we have to make, like the Christian choice in MT01, etc.

As happiness evolved into us by spiritual reality, it forms the good for us.

Science Suggests How to Become Happier

## Since scientific research suggests to us how the world including ourselves operates, it can – and does – suggest what we can do to become happier.

Say how this is the next step in developing my method.

Now to explain the above three points further. They constitute my theological method.

I’m crossing the naturalistic divide? Fact = value? Not necessarily so severe because we need to decide if we want greater happiness.

This is the next chapter.

The focus methodologically is the LoL/social science research: these are the ways that are best for us to live. Further, spiritual reality created us with these so these are what spiritual reality has in mind for us; these are the morality of spiritual reality for us.

As with JT: not denying traditional spiritual truths, but the new stuff from science is in addition and builds on them.

What does this mean that spiritual traditions can also contribute? In the camellia approach, this needs to happen.

Scientific versus spiritual understandings of happiness ® clash ® my method for developing a system of spiritual thought ® spiritual reality wants us to be happy. // What does science say about how to become happier?


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Chapter 11:
Relationship Stories

## Happiness in relationships:

·          with Leslie

·          story of our meeting

·          That woman at the German conference

·        Charlotte -- can't be -- search for happiness

·        the bridge in Heidelberg


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Chapter 12:
How-To Stories

## Each of us has an inbuilt predisposition to happiness. Scientific research also reveals to us that we can access the high part of our potential range by adopting certain attitudes and following certain behaviors: by sharing close personal relationships, for example, or living in a culture that evaluates events positively, experiencing flow in work and play, or being people of faith. We might work toward these if we want to raise our chances of greater happiness. Here, spiritual traditions can contribute. Happiness is tied to having meaning in life, and belonging to and believing in a spiritual tradition often provide this. How we achieve this is peculiar to each individual; we need to understand our own sense of the spiritual. For instance, achieving a state of flow can increase our happiness but flow requires challenge and what challenges one person may not challenge another. The question now is, ‘What is the best spiritual way for me as a unique and modern person?’

Tension:

Lead: 

Hook: 

Ending: 

Oxford:

I suppose that what I want here are many examples of people in Oxford who typify the various traits I describe. Some could be historical characters. The layout of the chapter itself will give it continuity if the Oxford bits are merely illustrative.

Outstanding Points and Questions:

·        Don’t have anything about God or spiritual reality in this chapter, except in the title. Reiterate the methodology stuff and scatter throughout the ‘God wants us to do this…’ phrase.

·        There may be lots of stuff in EP22 too.

·        How does what the spiritual ways say about how we should behave to be happy compare with the psychology stuff?

·        Can I include here more of the LoL stuff on happiness?

·        My point may be: what does spiritual reality want of us wo happiness? How ought we from a spiritual point of view to increase our level in our set range? Rephrase the book as ‘from a spiritual point of view’ versus ‘spiritual reality wants.’

·        I think I’ve solved the problem by saying that the spiritual traditions can provide the sense of meaning that appears to be the main prerequisite for happiness in the sense that we understand it.

·        The book is not about cause and effect, but about correlation.

·        To achieve happiness we need to understand our sense of spirituality – it may include tradition all or in part, or none. We all have within us the spiritual to be happy.

There must be many self-help books on getting happy.

Lead and Hook

Am I happier to live here? I love it, but should it make a huge difference? That has to do with reaching higher parts of my set range. But maybe that’s the point: I am about as happy here as I was in Concord. It works better for me, but I didn’t or shouldn’t have come here to be happier. Science tells me how to.

One assessment of happiness rates a child of a slum in a South American city, who daily picks through garbage dumps for food, happier than a well cared for child in an affluent North American suburb. [Yet, slum inhabitants can be very unhappy. Saw in chapter 2 that lack of money can predict it, while the opposite – possession of wealth – doesn’t. ‘In Britain, couples with children have an average weekly income of around £460. Once you have reached that level, your best bet is to solve your debt problems and spend on whatever gives you most satisfaction.’ But, what would give us ‘the most satisfaction?’ ‘So for money to make you happier what you need to do is to aim for the national average income and then follow our guide to resolving your financial problems.’] Cultures, individuals, and historical periods define happiness want us to seek in various ways. Happiness manifests itself in different forms. Some happiness lasts a short time and arises from the senses: absorbing an Auguste##??? Renoir garden painting, fingering a Polartex jacket, savoring a peach melba, losing ourselves in Andrew Lloyd-Weber’s Cats. Some happiness streams deeper and longer – as in a quality marriage – and represents an inner quality that helps us work and manage our lives. Happiness opposes depression but isn’t the opposite of unhappiness.

This book explores the different understandings of happiness and points us toward the deeper and longer type: this is what we really want.## ???is this joy???

You can never find happiness by searching because then you’re implying that it is outside yourself….All you need to do is choose it, not chase it….’ But choose what?

Compare this with the quotations from Pascal and then reconcile the two accounts. This may better go somewhere in this chapter. Is it the hunt or is not the hunt that’s going to bring happiness? Neither. For it’s in the process of doing something, perhaps even hunting for happiness, that brings happiness.

##‘People tend to think happiness is to be found in the pursuit of worldly pleasures: in divertissements like hunting, dancing, sports and games….The philosophers have always laughed at this….Pascal, however, goes a step further than the philosophers, whose analysis, he contends, evinces a facile and dangerous utopianism. As he points out, men cannot find a true universal justice or a true, lasting happiness; such things are beyond their feeble reach…. And so with the crowd’s attitude towards happiness. The high-minded philosophers insist that we should find happiness in ourselves. But the effect of doing nothing, of contemplating oneself, is to be forced to confront one’s weakness, isolation and inevitable death. Yes, the people are wrong to believe the things they pursue will make them happy – they never do. But the pursuit itself distracts them from the full horror of their predicament; it wards off ennui. ‘Diversion. Being unable to cure death, wretchedness and ignorance, ienQIanae.slen have decided…not to think about such things.’ And rightly so: ‘Ordinary people have some very sound opinions. For instance…in choosing diversion and preferring the hunt to the capture.’…But Pascal’s fragments, of course, are less concerned to get a perspective on the right, complex attitude to man’s vain quest for earthly justice and happiness, than to get one on man himself. The argument here, however, has the same basic structure. Human nature displays, we have seen, a bewildering mixture of spiritual and bestial qualities, to which none of the traditional philosophical systems can do justice.’TLS FEBRUARY 4 2000, pp.11-12, esp. p.12. BEN ROGERS, The Realist of Port-Royal: Neither sceptic nor Utopian: what Pascal still has to teach us about the mind-body problem

Science Contributes: Happiness from Enduring Characteristics

As Chapter One reported, we generally retain our level of happiness, despite the exceptions. We still don’t know, however, what makes one person happier than another. If a person’s level of happiness disregards age, race, sex, and most income brackets, who feels the happiest? What does the greatest level of happiness depend upon?

A National Institute of Aging study of 5,000 U.S. adults suggests that the happiest people remain relatively happy, though their work, family status, or place of residence change through the years. ‘Well-being is strongly influenced by enduring characteristics of the individual,’ the research team explained. A team at the University of California at Berkeley studied teenage boys and continued to track their lives through more than a half century. The study’s findings indicate that happy teenagers tend to turn into happy adults. Our emotions remain stable.

What are these ‘enduring characteristics,’ though?

Happy Traits

##???These are to say what we are to do and not to do???

Other sciences beyond behavioral genetics and neuroscience contribute to this discussion. Psychology explores activities that activate our happiness – sharing in stellar sex or consuming delicious dinners, perhaps. Psychologist David Myers lists four character traits that make for happy people:## // Those of us blessed with a happy disposition seem to keep it. To find what the greatest level of happiness depends on, we ought, therefore, to seek the enduring traits that mark a happy person. Study after study highlights four of them: self-esteem, extroversion, optimism, and the feeling of personal control. Those of us who are happy:

·        They have high self-esteem – they like themselves. Eighty-five per cent of Americans voted ‘having a good self-image or self-respect’ as very important, and zero percent voted it unimportant, according to a 1989 Gallup poll. These kinds of feelings help cushion us against the demons of anxiety and depression and so bolster our happiness levels. // tend toward high self-esteem – especially in individualistic cultures of the West. We have a high opinion of ourselves. We concur with statements like,  ‘I have good ideas,’ and ‘I’m a lot of fun to be with.’ We frequently show a self-serving bias and rate ourselves healthier, less prejudiced, more intelligent, more ethical, and more sociable than average.

·        Happy people feel optimistic – they exude hope and feel able to succeed at tasks they undertake. Increased optimism means better health, which in turn leads to greater happiness. A study of Harvard University graduates showed that those people who felt the most pessimistic in 1946 were the least healthy in 1980. // tend toward optimism – we concur with statements like, ‘I expect to succeed when I take on something new.’ As optimists, we usually achieve better health, more success, and greater happiness than pessimists.

·        Happy people are extroverts – they feel self-confident and mix easily with others. Extroverts are more likely to marry, find good jobs, and make close friends, according to research by Ed Diener and Keith Magnus of the University of Illinois. These achievements lead to greater satisfaction with life. // tend to be extroverts – both individually and in company, whether living solitarily or with others, whether living in urban or rural neighborhoods, whether working alone or in a group. As extroverts, we appear happier than introverts, contrary to the notion that serenity and quiet leads to happiness.

·        Happy people feel in control of their lives. Allowing prisoners, nursing home patients, and employees to make decisions about their environment and its running results in increases in happiness. Controlling our own time also leads to happiness. Psychologist Michael Argyle of Oxford University comments that happy people ‘are punctual and efficient,’ while unhappy people ‘postpone things and are inefficient.’ Good time management gives a sense of control. // tend to feel personal control – the empowerment from which leads us to perform better at school, to deal more easily with stress, and to gain more enjoyment from life. Deprivation of control, such as that experienced by prisoners, residents of nursing homes, and those under totalitarian regimes, leads to poorer health and lower morale.

The so-called ‘happy farms’ scattered across the USA provide commercial counterparts to psychological descriptions of what leads to happiness. Here you can learn about ‘inner wisdom, self-confidence, personal empowerment, motivation, reconciliation with the past and greater vitality,’ all for the weekly sum of $1,360. Our determination to find true happiness has turned it into a multi-million dollar industry.

Other factors, like cultural worldview, can affect happiness. Some cultures look at the world as a friendly and manageable place. Some cultures approach the world with negative emotions, like guilt, anxiety, and anger. Different cultural frameworks contribute to differing levels of happiness, even in the face of similar life situations.

Values and goals also contribute to happiness levels. Possessing objectives, progressing toward them, and avoiding conflict among them – all occur with higher happiness, according to Robert Emmons. Diener and Frank Fujita also found that assets like money, intelligence, and ability to get along socially go along with high happiness if they bear on an individual’s goals. (This helps explain why income levels predict happiness in poor countries and why self-esteem levels predict happiness in wealthy countries that prize individualism.) Happiness isn’t a passive reaction to an amiable situation; it arises from engagement in worthwhile activities and from striving to achieve personal objectives.

What does a higher level of happiness come from? It involves high self-esteem, a sense of control over life, and an outgoing, optimistic personality. In addition, our view of the world and our having values and goals influence our level of happiness.

These Traits May Not Cause Happiness But Accompany It

Myers and Diener warn us, however, not to think that happiness causes these traits. Psychologists have yet to understand fully the connection between the characteristics and happiness – the traits may cause it, or vice versa. Perhaps happiness induces extroversion. On the other hand, extroversion may induce happiness. Experiments show that people who mimic high self-esteem feel better about themselves; perhaps we can achieve happiness by acting in specific ways. Further, outgoing people appear more cheerful and more relaxed in the company of others – perhaps this explains why they usually marry earlier, have more friends, and land better jobs than introverts.

Role of Genes

Our genes also appear to play a role in our level of happiness – as twin studies show – and influence our susceptibility to the above traits.## ???this may be better with the later discussion on purpose since I bring in genes there???

Attitudes/Behaviors That Correlate With, Perhaps Cause, Happiness

Positive self-esteem, a sense of control, an outgoing and optimistic personality, a friendly view of the world, and possession of values and goals – all influence happiness. This introduces the second half of Templeton’s principle 31E 25(4):

A happy person is a person with a certain set of attitudes.

The two halves of the principle together state, modified because of the survey results about near universal happiness:

The happiest person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.

## Attitudes ® meaning. Using your financial power to make the world a better place has a built-in, feelgood factor. By buying in small independent shops, you can help preserve some local character in your area. By buying organic food you are doing both the environment and your health a favor.’ ‘Choose products which are fairly traded -Cafedirect coffee or items in Oxfam and Traidcraft catalogues – and you can take pleasure in knowing that your money is going to people who work for fair wages in decent conditions.’

Researchers pursue the happiness-attitudes connection further. Are there specific activities and situations that correlate with, if not cause, higher degrees of happiness, possibly by the way they influence the above traits?

Social Relationships and Happiness

## Mary knows stuff about a group (‘Quando’?) that is like a religious group but without a god but that functions as a community to optimize the members’ happiness.

Individualistic cultures allow personal control, a chance to enact the inner self in the outer self, and to express opinion, ability, and feeling. These possibilities encourage happiness, but risk isolation and detachment. Chapter 21 reviewed Martin Seligman’s contention that the current epidemic of depression stems in part from poor social bonds. Twenty-five percent of U.S. residents now live alone as compared to eight percent 50 years ago.

Martin Seligman blames ‘rampant individualism’ for our saturation in mental ill health. We don’t commit ourselves ‘to the common good.’ We rely too much on ourselves. We expect more and more, he writes, but

life is inevitably full of personal failures. Our stocks go down, people we love reject us, we write bad papers, we don’t get the job we want, we give bad lectures. When larger, benevolent institutions (God, nation, family) are available, they help us cope with personal loss and give us a framework for hope. Without faith in these institutions, we interpret personal failures as catastrophic. They seem to last forever and contaminate all of life. The new emphasis on the self raises the chances that we will blame these misfortunes, losses and disappointments on ourselves and thus depress ourselves.

Either the emphasis on individualism alone or the loss of faith in institutions [religion, country, family] alone would increase our vulnerability to depression. The recent combination of the two, I believe, is a surefire recipe for an epidemic of depression.

Robert Bellah agrees: ‘Part of what’s missing…is a sense of connectedness, belonging, mutuality, being part of a people.’

The individualism that surfaces in Yuppieness causes hopelessness. So says Martin Seligman. He believes, as we saw in Chapter 21, that Western individualism leads to depression, ‘a new plague’ among the young and middle-aged. ‘Individualists enjoy independence and take pride in their achievements,’ Myers suggests. ‘But at a price.… Whose fault is it if [we] don’t make it on [our] own?…When facing failure or rejection the self-driven individual takes on personal responsibility for problems.’

Rampant individualism carries with it two seeds of its own destruction,’ concludes Seligman. ‘First, a society that exalts the individual to the extent ours now does will be ridden with depression.... Second, and perhaps most important, is meaninglessness [, a lack of] attachment to something larger than [us].’

More than nine out of ten people find marriage still the best alternative to living alone. Three in four married people profess their spouse as their best friend, and four in five would choose the same person were they to marry again. These facts illuminate the National Opinion Research Center’s finding that 39 percent of married adults – as opposed to 24 percent of never-married adults – report being ‘very happy.’

This result doesn’t depend on the gender of the married person. European surveys and a review of 93 other studies show that difference in levels of happiness between married and never-married people is almost the same for women and men. Married men and married women in the West feel happier than people who have never married, those who have separated, and divorcees.

The link between marriage and happiness can work the other way, not just from marriage to happiness. Those of us who are happy make for more attractive partners and so become better marriage candidates. Perhaps happier people tend to marry more than less happy people.

Marriage can also lead to unhappiness; says Henry Ward Beecher: ‘Well-married a person is winged; ill-matched, shackled.’ Marriages that break up can cause much misery too. Even afterwards, only 12 percent of divorcees consider themselves ‘very happy.’

Overall, the plusses of close relationships with family and friends tend to outweigh the stresses and strains that such relationships can produce. A close, stable relationship provides strong support, and brings joy. Happy people characteristically have close personal relationships.


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Chapter 13:
Writing Stories

## How important writing is to me:

·      my tussle with this:

·      broken marriages

·      fear of death

·      depression

·      going on and off Zoloft

·      happiness through it

·      my flow/zone


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Chapter 14:
Flow Stories

## Flow and Happiness

Purposes and Goals

Intentions

Happiness from Pursuing Goals in Flow

Preparation for Flow

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Flow/Meaning and Happiness

Higher levels of happiness can come with other opportunities than close relationships. The unemployed tend to feel less satisfied than the happily employed. Maksim Gorky claimed a century ago that, ‘when work is a pleasure, life is a joy! When work is a duty, life is slavery.’ Recent studies of work satisfaction support Gorky’s sentiment: satisfaction at work influences life satisfaction.

Studs Terkel speaks of ‘the Chicago piano tuner, who seeks and finds the sound that delights; the bookbinder, who saves a piece of history; the Brooklyn fire fighter, who saves a piece of life.’ All these people discover meaning in their work – employment, for them, means much more than money in the bank. Work defines for many of us who we are. It gives us a sense of belonging to a cooperative team with a common purpose. This, in turn, allows us to forge our social identities; we feel that our lives and our contributions matter.

Work can sometimes fail to satisfy. We may feel overwhelmed – when we lack the time or requisite skills to fulfill a task – which leads to stress and anxiety. We may feel underwhelmed – when we have too little work to fill our time or when we feel overskilled for the task at hand – which leads to boredom. Between boredom and anxiety falls the optimum state where tasks match our skills, engaging us and keeping us busy. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi calls this state ‘flow.’ Flow leads to happiness.

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, professor of psychology and education at the University of Chicago, discusses another road to happiness in his book, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience. When we are absorbed in an activity and time flies by, we experience flow: we optimally engage our skills and talents, avoiding underchallenge (which results in boredom) and overchallenge (which results in stress). When in a state of flow, we feel happiness, satisfaction, a sense of meaning, purpose, and control. Csikszentmihalyi first observed this state when studying artists who spent hours absorbed in their work. They concentrated purely on their creation, toiling for the sake of the art alone – not for money, fame, or other extrinsic reward. Numerous other activities besides artistic creation can result in flow – climbing a mountain, writing a book, weaving a rug, playing tennis, for example. Any of us can experience flow, just so long as we are absorbed in challenging activity. We report more positive feelings when in this state than when we laze around, bored, doing nothing much. The experience of flow promotes happiness.

We shouldn’t rely on external things to make us happy. Explore creativity, fun and play instead….Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, professor of psychology at the University of Chicago and a happiness researcher for the past 20 years, has found that we can be happy doing almost anything – providing it involves us wholeheartedly. He calls this state of soul contentment ‘flow’.’

##‘‘Every flow activity provides a sense of discovery, a creative feeling of transporting the person into a new reality,’ he says.’

NO MATTER what you’re doing – painting a picture or mopping a floor – providing you are caught up in your task, it can be creative. It’s the attitude that counts.’

‘‘We hunger for what might be called creative living,’ says Julia Cameron, author of The Artist’s Way, ‘an expanded sense of creativity which we can use in business and in relationships. I have seen lives transformed by the simple process of recovering our creative powers.’’

Best of all, she insists that we can all be creative – and happy. ‘No matter what your age or your life path, it is not too late, egotistical or silly to work on your creativity.’’


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Chapter 15:
Persistence Stories

I have lost seven children, so far, in my life. The latest loss happened yesterday.

The first two, conceived in 1976, were Christine’s and my first children, our twins Peter and Keri.

The problem started when she was about six months pregnant and we didn’t know we were to have twins. It was cold and damp in the 1976 winter in Hamilton, New Zealand, where I was serving my curacy at the Cathedral of Saint Peter. Christine had been feeling contractions through her back most of the day, nothing that unusual, our guidebook said. Sometimes this happens.

The Lamaze classes had been going well. Pant, pant breathe; pant, pant, breathe. I was learning to be a good beginning father.

The contractions persisted and so, about midnight, we got into the car and drove to the hospital. The most traumatic details in my memory have subsumed many of the others. However, I do remember that the maternity section of the hospital in Hamilton was old and dilapidated, soon to be torn down. I do remember that Christine bedded in a cubicle and the left hand end of a short corridor. I do remember that a curtain formed the door of the cubicle and that some drugs were able to stop the contractions. All seemed OK. The staff sent me home.

The phone rang about five a.m. urging me to hurry to the hospital. Christine was in labor.

The contractions had stopped all right. Then they restarted about two hours later. The nursing staff had changed and the new ones didn’t believe Christine when she told them she was having contractions in her back; everyone has them in their front! They wouldn’t give her the drug to stop the labor. Shortly, she dilated and they called me.

Peter emerged shortly after I arrived in the delivery room. A bit late for pant, pant, blows. People remarked how small he was but I didn’t see that. I had not had a child before with which to compare him. But wait…there’s another one coming. Twins! Keri entered even smaller and less energetic. My main memory of that night was watching Keri leave. She was placed in a cot and Peter was taken out to receive special treatment. They didn’t have enough resources, they said, to cope with two premies. We were lucky, they said, that they’d work on one. It was a special favor to us. So, we watched Keri die. She looked like me. Fair hair. The staff had gone and we were in shock. Keri lay in the cot waving her arms and legs slowly grasping for a breath. Eventually, none came.

They fed Christine tranquillizers and she remained asleep or non-compus-mentus for much of the remaining week. I remember not seeing her much; she was out of it in a room by herself and I had to deal with Peter’s few days. Plus visitors. Then the funeral. Christine was still out of it then. The doctors expressed concern about her. I wonder if she ever really dealt with this day.

Peter was baptized but I can’t remember whether by me or someone else; probably the hospital chaplain. Perhaps Keri was too. I don’t know.

I thought he’d live. He flailed too, but in an incubator and more vigorously. He looked like Christine’s father with a big chest and upside-down face. Dark hair. He looked so small beside the other problem babies, behind a glass screen or with me beside him, he holding my finger. Tiny, tiny fingers. The special breathing apparatus meant I couldn’t get closer. I cried a lot. I cry writing this. After two days, the staff told me he had died and asked if I wanted to see his body. He had stopped moving but his arms and legs had frozen struggling. Even now, he wants to breathe. So do I for him.

The funeral at St Peter’s started with Dad carrying the white casket with the two of them in it. Very small. It was the first time I had seen Dad cry…a break through. He became a human being who could care. In the deaths, I found a possibility in my life I had not known before. It was not much then but, in time, it grew, and continues to grow.

Keri and Peter received a cremation. Etched into a wall of memories in Hamilton, their names remain.

The church did not bring me peace as I mourned. Neither did I demand that God tell me the reasons for taking Christine’s and my Koonalda offspring.

My father’s tears offered me a small stream to follow, on which to return.

The next year, Hamilton hospital opened a new maternity wing. No one could believe that doctors told a father he was lucky they would let one of his children live; while he watched the flailing small hands of his daughter, gasping for her few breaths, die.

The next year, Christine and I had a beautiful, healthy baby girl, Miriam.

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I lost my third child in Dunedin in 1979. Christine miscarried.

Four days before my parents called to tell me that my sister, Karen, had been in a most horrific car accident and there was a chance she wouldn’t survive. She was driving in a head-on collision. The back of her seat had snapped off and she ended in the back seat under the engine.

I flew to New Plymouth and, with my parents, drove the hundred miles to Wanganui to where she was hospitalized. All we could do was to visit when we could.

We stayed in my parents’ caravan (the New Zealand term for trailer) in a caravan park near the hospital. The caretakers came over to tell me I had an urgent phone call. It was Christine. During the night she was bleeding a lot. She called the hospital, which sent an ambulance and then she miscarried once admitted.

I felt very torn. Christine was all right: emotionally distraught, but physically OK. So I stayed another day or so, until Karen was on the mend, and then flew back to Dunedin.

Karen survived and, the following year, Christine and I had another beautiful, healthy baby girl, Kiri. The name ‘Kiri’ was what we had wanted to call Keri. (We had both a girl’s and a boy’s name selected for our first child because we didn’t know what gender would arrive and, being twins, they used up both our choices). ‘Kiri’ is a Maori name, however (it means ‘skin’ or the ‘person’), and we weren’t brave enough at that point to face the racism we thought she and we would receive.

The next Christmas, Karen gave me a picture: Salvador Dali’s painting of Jesus on the cross. It had been on the back seat of her car when it crashed (she was a salesperson and this was one of her samples) and was the only thing in the car to remain unscathed.

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I lost my fourth and fifth children when I lived in Concord, New Hampshire, over 1985 and 1986. These deaths affected me the most deeply, but they ended the most happily.

I left Christine in 1984 when we lived in Boston and she returned to New Zealand to live in the investment house we had built for our retirement. In her anger, Christine tried to stop me accessing Miriam and Kiri. She put down the phone when I called and threw away my cards and letters to them. On many winter nights in Concord, New Hampshire, I walked for hours along the railway tracks from near Mary’s and my house. The step in front of step didn’t remove my upset; it only filled the time. I took the matter to court, which appointed a guardian ad lightem who helped me with advice and greatly facilitated the gradual reconciliation of the girls and me. My problem was that I lived in another country and the New Zealand court had no jurisdiction there. The first year, I could travel to New Zealand and Dunedin to see them under supervision. I saw Kiri several times over the week I was there, but Miriam for only one hour. The second year, Kiri flew with me to my parents’ house in New Plymouth for a week and I saw Miriam in Dunedin when I came and went. The third year, both Miriam and Kiri came with me to my parents’ house, and Kiri came with Karen to visit me in the U.S. The fourth year, both the girls came to the U.S., being met by relatives in Auckland for the flight transfers and I waited for them in Los Angeles to be with them for the flights to Manchester, New Hampshire. The fifth and subsequent years, they flew to Manchester. I also saw them in New Zealand and took them to France and England. They’ve seen quite a bit of the world while we enjoyed our access with each other.

We were and remain close, though we continue to live oceans apart.

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I lost my sixth child in Oxford, England, in 2000.

My child is the magazine Science & Spirit, which I had started over a decade before as Science & Religion News, and which had grown to an international, bimonthly, moderately circulating glossy publication. It still had a way to go ‘til I felt it was a success, though. The legal conditions of the loss require that I not say anything disparaging about those involved, and so I must restrict myself to the barest of bare facts and something of how I felt…and feel.

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Yesterday, in September 2002, it looks like I may have lost my seventh child, but we’ll see. I’m holidaying in northern Sweden on an autumn writing retreat. My stepson, Mary’s son Chris, recently had a child. Mary sent me a picture and an enthusiastic message. Chris is on my email list called ‘family,’ but his server has returned my messages for over six months. I also send him weekly postcards, along with those I send Kiri and Miriam and my parents, or at least I had been sending them to him until the post office returned them, addressee unknown. He’s changed his address. The email yesterday from Mary says she won’t give me Chris’s new address and email.

There’s more than one way to skin a cat…not that I would ever skin a cat. Cuddle and tickle, yes; skin, no. Talking about cats, the owners of the house Leslie and I are staying in have a cat, grey and white, who is very shy. They brought her here over the summer. When they left, they couldn’t find her. She spends her time out in the woods. They thought a fox might have killed her. But she meowed our first night here and we’ve put food and milk out for her, which disappears every night. I’ve just seen her out the window. Persistence is the name of the game. She has faith that we’d feed her and we have faith that she’ll be OK living as she wants to.


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Chapter 16:
Faith Stories

## Happiness and Religion

Happiness from Faith’s God

Happiness from Faith’s Beliefs

Happiness from Faith’s Belonging

Happiness from Faith’s Pursuits

Happiness from Faith’s Meaning

Happiness and Faith

Happiness from What Spiritual Path?

Western Society’s Value Gap

Justice and Happiness

Spirituality and the Values Gap

An Adequate Spiritual Path

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Faith and Happiness

To be in a close relationship or in a state of flow can increase happiness. Religion can significantly affect our mental health too, as we saw in Chapter 21. Religious people – those who attend church frequently – in both North America and Europe report feeling happier and more satisfied with life than non-religious people. Religious people have a much lower chance of becoming delinquent, turning to drugs or alcohol, divorcing, marrying unhappily, and committing suicide than non-religious people. They also suffer slightly less from depression and tend toward healthier and longer lives. Highly spiritual people are two times more likely to self-report as ‘very happy.’

Today’s believers do stand out as prime examples of happy people. The highly religious declare themselves very happy at twice the rate of those with the lowest spiritual commitment, according to a recent Gallup survey. A study of 166,600 people in fourteen countries demonstrates that happiness and satisfaction with life increase with frequency of attendance at worship services.

Modern religious thinkers propose that an active and committed spiritual life leads to happiness. To their eyes and to those of millions of contemporary Christians, the Bible paints a picture of a gracious and loving deity who desires everyone’s happiness. Happiness arises directly from spiritual reality.

Why##???amplify??? does faith correlate with well-being? We previously explored whether the close and supportive network of relationships available to active members of congregations promotes well-being. We also looked at whether happiness grows from the meaning and significance that people gain from faith’s beyond-them focus. Perhaps a religious outlook provides answers to life’s deep questions and encourages us to judge life events positively. Perhaps a religious attitude toward tragedy breeds hope (and so promotes well-being) when we become aware of our vulnerability and our death.

Modern life is askew, declares the U.S.’s First Lady. She summons to our minds several images:

·        ‘hopeless girls with babies and angry boys with guns’;

·        a break down in our communities;

·        the passing away of civility;

·        the alienation of our ‘acquisitive and competitive corporate culture,’ which runs amok;

·        a ‘sleeping sickness’ that infects the soul.

We lack, at some core level, meaning in our individual lives and meaning collectively, that sense that our lives are part of some greater effort, that we are connected to one another, that community means that we have a place where we belong no matter who we are.’

Where might our happiness come from?

What we need, suggests Hillary Rodham Clinton, is a ‘reformation of the human spirit.’ Her diagnosis finds support among liberals and conservatives alike: despite economic growth, spiritual poverty pervades. We need renewing in our inward selves.

Perhaps the turn around has started. The year 1987 saw the height of ‘becoming very well off financially’ as ‘very important or essential’ in the eyes of students entering college. It then hit 76 percent and still stays number one – but less strongly so – out of the 19 objectives the young people rate. Inglehart senses in the change ‘a renewed concern for spiritual values.’ Materialism, he thinks, is starting to lessen. Young people show more interest in the meaning of their lives, in safeguarding nature, and in their personal relationships than in a Herculean economy and Department of Defense. George Gallup detects this trend as well: ‘One of two dominant trends in society today [along with a search for deeper, more meaningful relationships] is the search for spiritual moorings.... Surveys document the movement of people who are searching for meaning in life with a new intensity, and [who] want their religious faith to grow.’ These spiritual moorings have a familiar face. U.S. residents look to God in their search for purpose and meaning because 96 percent of them already believe in God’s existence. God provides, most of us believe, the way to step beyond materialism.

Sigmund Freud thought religion illusory. It nibbles away at soundness of mind. It can become a type of illness in which religious people obsess and feel guilty. They push down their emotions and hold back their sexual feelings. Many writers concur with Freud; thinkers often assume the irrelevance of religion for happiness or the repression by religion of happiness. Perhaps Freud is wrong, though. Perhaps spiritual wealth, assuming we gather it, brings the happiness we desire.

Jesus didn’t extend to his followers release from the suffering and evil of their life on earth. Yet European and North American surveys, numerous of them, show that religious people more frequently than the nonreligious feel happy and pleased with their lives:

·      Gallup polls of cross-sections of U.S. residents compare those with a high spiritual commitment to those with a low commitment. Two times more of those with a high spiritual commitment than those with a low commitment said they felt ‘very happy.’

·      Nine thousand Europeans participated in a survey. The ‘very happy’ included 16 percent atheists, 19 percent nonreligious, and 25 percent religious. The ‘very happy’ in a similar U.S. survey represented 31 percent of the ‘not very’ or ‘somewhat’ religious, and 41 percent of the religious. One hundred and sixty-six thousand people in fourteen countries registered their satisfaction with their lives; 77 percent of the nonreligious, 82 percent of the mildly religious, and 86 percent of the highly religious felt ‘satisfied’ or ‘very satisfied.’

·      Morris Okun and William Stock surveyed the research and learned that religiosity and health best predict the happiness of older people. ‘When I feel cranky,’ a religious 80-year-old said, ‘I remember the words of an old hymn from Sunday school days, ‘Count Your Blessings.’ Count your many blessings – your friends, your family, your health, your hope that death won’t have the last word.’

·      Mothers of children disabled developmentally suffer less depression if deeply religious than if irreligious. Women recently widowed feel more joy if they frequently attend synagogue or church than if inactive religiously. Parents with a child who dies of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome more easily find meaning in the tragedy if they are religiously committed than if irreligious. Those recently divorced, disabled, bereaved, seriously ill, or unemployed maintain more of life’s joy if their faith is strong. ‘Religious faith buffers the negative effects of trauma on well-being,’ suggests Christopher Ellison.

·      Religious adherents, at least in the U.S., are less prone to delinquency, alcohol and drug abuse, divorce and unhappy marriages, suicide, depression, and other psychological illnesses like schizophrenia.

We all die; religiosity doesn’t save us from that. Neither does faith prevent all stress and pain. The above studies do suggest, however, that religiosity leads to greater strength and happiness in routine life and in crises. It helps us cope with growing old. The religious among us tend to live longer and enjoy greater physical and mental health. Faith also helps socially.

What does religiosity supply that links it positively with joy and psychological and physical fitness?

The need to belong is important to religion. Most religious adherents know the kind of people who belong to a particular religion, but they don’t know the belief system of their own religion in its broad sweep let alone in its subtleties. Joining and leaving religious groups¾including mainstream religion, sects, and cults¾depend more on social bonds than on beliefs. Perhaps, then, religious involvement increases happiness because adherents connect with others socially. Not so; researchers can factor out the effect of social involvement, and the happiness-religiosity link persists.

We should then ask what else does today’s culture omit and that faith provides. Studies suggest that it supplies a sense of purpose and meaning. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi’s research says we feel happiest when our life flows with a unifying theme. (Chapters One and Two discuss Csikszentmihalyi’s work in more depth.) We feel best when our life centers on a goal that overrides all others and supplies them with meaning. One person’s life may flow around painting. Another around social justice. Another around discovering the intricacies of quantum physics. Another around expressing the nuances and passions of life through literature. Martin Luther King said: ‘My obligation is to do the right thing. The rest is in God’s hands.’ Like him, many of us sing our whole life to a religious melody.

Life in community can help the development of a sense of flow and the resultant purpose and commitment to something greater than us – God, family, nation, an objective. Our ideas grow when we share them with others. We strengthen with interaction, whether positive in outcome (the resolve of an Alcoholics Anonymous group) or negative (the resolve of a terrorist cohort). ‘The self is a very poor site for finding meaning,’ writes Seligman. A private faith is tough to sustain.

A communal faith can thus supply us with something larger than us. We find meaning when we discover and follow such a faith. It furnishes this because it equips us with, in Seligman’s words, ‘an attachment to something larger than the lonely self.’

Faith can provide even more. Many of us find, Ellison discovered, that meditation and prayer heighten the awareness of close relationships. Gallup and Margaret Poloma write that 90 percent of US residents pray at least occasionally and, in that time, heartfully share their worries and hopes. Eighty-eight percent of this 90 percent report a feeling of deep happiness and inner peace when they pray. Many who pray feel support, guidance, comfort, and known by a God who values them. A sense of our limitations and an acceptance of them develop with prayer. We can more readily accept ourselves and our limitations. We feel that our lives have become more important.

We all benefit from being connected to a caring community,’ writes Myers, ‘from a sense of significance, from experiencing humility and deep acceptance, from a focus beyond ourselves, and from a perspective on life’s tragedies, especially death.’[i] We look for something more and we may find it in ‘a vision of life that is both conservative and radical: conserving social wisdom accumulated over generations, while questioning the well-traveled road of our individualism and materialism.’[ii]

To belong to a spiritual community can lead to engagement with people in need, and this activity can increase our happiness. Service altruism and selflessness – correlates with happiness, as Chapter Twelve discussed. We feel good when we do good. Our self-esteem increases. We raise our eyes from ourselves and become more in flow. Active participation in a communal religious activity can increase compassion, which in turn increases happiness.

To belong to a spiritual community and to focus beyond ourselves can expand happiness, not only our own, but that of others.

Don Browning studied a Pentecostal Apostolic Church of God in Chicago. The church’s long-time pastor, Arthur Brazier, also leads the local community – an inner city ghetto – in its attempts to invigorate itself with better transportation, housing, jobs, and job preparation for its people. Brazier’s church also aims to remake the Black family. The role of men needs a change, the church believes: the relationship of husbands with their wives is much more than 50-50 – it’s 100-100. Browning writes that the congregation ‘performs countless weddings each year, witnesses very few divorces among its congregation, sees few out-of-wedlock births among its teenagers, and supports large numbers of its children through high school and into higher education.’[iii] No other group in that community helps the reconstruction as much as this church.

Robert Woodson believes that the most potent service a community can offer will assuage ‘the hunger...for meaning.’[iv] Spiritually rooted programs may not always succeed. Programs that do work, however, usually build from a spiritual foundation.

A Gallup poll in the U.S. compared how much concern religious individualists feel for those in need with how much concern church goers feel. The individualists register less. They also volunteer less time to help the needy. To develop our spirituality outside a religious group produces less active compassion and less overall happiness. 

Research links faith in community with societal health and well-being, as well with personal health, well-being, and life satisfaction. Thus we can say,

      Happiness comes from spiritual wealth.

We’ve also seen that money and possessions don’t necessarily produce well-being. These two conclusions together produce John Templeton’s principle 20C [19(2)]:

      Happiness comes from spiritual wealth, not material wealth.[v]

More research into these alternatives is necessary before we can adequately explain the correlation between faith and happiness.

##???Because happiness requires a sense of meaning (church attendance, etc.), the latest work on purpose and genes comes in here.??? ???This is where the spiritual traditions also contribute: the sense of meaning and purpose in life! Faith and happiness then ties in with Chapter Two (elaborate).???

Conclusion

Who feels happiest? Science tells us this: Sex, race, and income usually fail to predict it. We can’t purchase it. Knowing our traits – whether we share close personal relationships, whether our culture evaluates events positively, whether we experience flow in work and play, whether we are people of faith – all these factors provide insight into our level of happiness. We might work toward these if we want to raise our chances of greater happiness. Concrete activities (engaging in rewarding pastimes, or making lasting friendships) leading to joy. Each of us has an inbuilt predisposition to happiness. We can access the high part of our potential range by adopting certain attitudes and following certain behaviors. This is following the spiritual path. Templeton’s principle might now read:

The happiest person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain approach to life.## ???Its doing this also tell us how we can become spiritually happy and happy spiritually.???

## It’s following a path that ® happiness. Look at examples of faith paths.

I could assess each approach as I do it from the point of view of modern the understanding of happiness as happiness and the relation to wanting more and how to get it. What would moderns say to each approach? This may contradict with my later saying that a spiritual path ® happiness, but I do ask what paths are appropriate for moderns.

This brings in the work on the nature of belief systems. It could also relate to the new work on the biology of meaning.

My Starting Point: Modern Life. What is necessary to live life fully and well? Food, drink, sex, companionship, meaning, etc. I could try to understand the (my) spiritual dimensions for each of these. Perhaps the most relevant will be meaning. What sort of meaning? Fulfilling work is one. ??? This looks like it’s going to bring in the LoL stuff into my metaphysics – wonderful!!!??? A sense of where one’s life is going is another. // Christian Tradition and Spiritual thought: Their Importance. But how important? My conclusion that we shouldn’t bow to received doctrines because they are received. They must be winnowed. Especially deal with spiritual reality as omnipotent (problem of evil: accepting the will of spiritual reality), spiritual reality as totally beyond (just need transcendence), and Jesus died for our sins (an interpretation of Jesus’ death and resurrection). It still seems important, though, to interact with received doctrines. // The history of Oxford, especially its university history. A remake of the Huxley-Wilberforce debate and its reality. This is similar, somehow, to the reactions to behavioral genetics. Then modern approaches of Arthur and Keith. Where were some of my heroes of the end of the 19th and beginning of the 20th century (Macintosh, et al.)? They could form the basis for the last section on method. What about those burnt at the stake? Perhaps some of the 20th century Anglicans on science and religion were here. I don’t need to copy their ideas, but rather the dynamics of the situation. Perhaps this could also be Arthur and Keith: they did this for their own time.

This also involves the relationship between spiritual reality and us, that spiritual reality wants us to follow a path of meaning, not necessarily (at least at this stage of the discussion – I make a case for other divinely wanted requirements later on) a particular path.


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Chapter 17:
Meaning Stories

## HOW IS THIS HAPPIER AND SPIRITUAL?

·      say it by doing it

·      no need to get into the nature of God


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Chapter 18:
Revised Stories

## Restating Revelation

Restating Resurrection

Smiles for Meaning and Happiness

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What Is Spiritual Reality?

I constructed the prior parts of this book independent of a spiritual orientation. Now I introduce several specifically Christian matters that build on this.

Ideas central to Christian system of spiritual ideas include ‘revelation’ (a disclosure of divine will or truth, specifically the revelation who is Jesus Christ) and ‘resurrection’ (the rising of Jesus on the third day after his crucifixion, and the rising of the dead). These create Christian ideas because they center on Jesus. Many other ideas exist in this system of theories, but these two lie most centrally. Christian theology includes the idea of ‘creation’ it in its base of ideas, but not in its focus.

I speak in a specifically Christian context here and address the words of that tradition. I want to fill these words with fresh meaning drawn from what I stated above concerning the nature of spiritual reality and that makes sense to me.

Asking Questions about Revelation

Christianity says that Jesus is the revelation of spiritual reality, the incarnation. I need to understand the context of their belief. Contexts hide meanings. The first Americans I saw, for instance, spoke in a language that stumped me; someone else told me those others spoke ‘Yank.’ Hearing a southern drawl like that now makes me realize that a Yank is a Yankee, someone from New England, or at least from the north. In the U.S., the word possesses a context of meaning that outsiders probably know nothing about; how could outsiders they feel the latent hostility here of many southerners for northerners?

The traditional Christian context for ‘Jesus is the revelation of spiritual reality’ hides many beliefs: What is spiritual reality? Why would spiritual reality want to become a human being? What does it mean for Jesus to be both spiritual reality and human? Answers need to feel true to the spiritual ideas I stated above. I accept revelation and resurrection as terms to explain, but I will not import orthodox interpretations along with them. New wine requires new wine skins.

So, I rescind a phrase in the definition of ‘revelation’ (‘a disclosure of divine will or truth, specifically the revelation who is Jesus Christ’). Specifically, I reject the existence of divine will or truth, as these project too personal a nature onto spiritual reality. By revelation, I refer, rather, to the disclosure of specific truths about human nature. Spiritual reality is the subuniverse, the unfolder of everything, so self-revelation by spiritual reality to humanity would disclose specific truths about human nature within the context of all that exists, existed, and will exist.

To provide a context that helps us understand the nature of the revelation and thus what spiritual reality would self-reveal, I ask: Why would spiritual reality self-reveal?

Spiritual traditions started as tribal and animistic, where people saw nature as shot through with power that they could influence by ritual. It then expanded its pools of adherents so that a tradition applied to larger tribal groups. This stage saw the advent of spiritual traditions such as those of the Greeks and Vedic Indians, who believed in a high spiritual reality or supreme being beyond animistic and tribal spiritual realities and powers. The personalities of the spiritual realitys become more pronounced, with speculation about the ultimate nature of reality and personal devotion moving to the fore. Then, starting about the sixth century b.c.e., what we now know as the major religions began to form. The teachings of Confucius and Lao-tzu in China expressed new mystical and ethical insights. The Upanishads and the Buddha gave birth to a new form of the spiritual quest in India. And in Israel, Moses and other prophets preached a monotheism that stood against the beliefs of surrounding tribes. Jesus and Christianity emerged out of Judaism. The Judaic and Christian traditions also influenced Mohammed, the prophet of Islam. Over this period of human history, some spiritual traditions became international across cultures, tied to the spread of settled agricultural societies and related to the development of trans-kin altruism beyond the boundaries of related tribes. Spiritual traditions faced natural selection of a cultural type and few passed the test of time. The Hellenistic religion of the Greeks and Romans failed to survive, for instance. Spirituality participated in the evolutionary story of humanity and played an essential role in forging cohesion among a variety of cultures.

So, to the question ‘Why would spiritual reality self-reveal?’ I respond: at that juncture of human (cultural) evolution or development, key figures disclosed truths about human nature, and around them movements emerged that grew to change the course of history. Self-revelations of spiritual reality became necessary around two thousand years ago (give or take 600 years) for the next natural stage in the evolution of cultures to occur. Christianity, one of the transnational traditions, obviously did survive. Jesus founded it, or at least formed the focus of its founders Paul, Peter, and other of Jesus’ followers, and of all its adherents.

What form might a self-revelation of spiritual reality require? Why a person?

A cat named Fred once lived with me in a house beside a busy road. One evening, Fred failed to return home, an unusual event. I had noticed her on the other side of the road on occasions, so I feared the worst. After an hour searching on both sides of the road and calling her name innumerable times, I finally heard a weak and plaintive meow from under a shrub. A vehicle had hit her. She survived with operations and much care, but I would still see her on the other side when she was better. How could I warn her of the dangers and tell her not to cross? All my talking and affection achieved no ounce of good. I would have to become a cat and convince her in cat talk of the perils of the road. Similarly, so my Christmas sermon would explain, spiritual reality had to become a human being to tell us about its nature with regard to ourselves. For a message to have the best chance of communicating effectively to us at all human levels, it must come from a person.

A revelation as a person can communicate to us at all personal levels, but does that establish it as a revelation of spiritual reality? Every person, everything we know of – even inspiration – is a self-revelation of spiritual reality, because all unfold from spiritual reality the subuniverse. Spiritual reality self-reveals in Jesus and all the other prophets.

Why should we devote ourselves to Jesus, then, rather than to any of the other great teachers? Because we choose to. Many people raise George Washington high on a pedestal, while no one that I know elevates King George III of Britain, monarch during the revolutionary wars. Many significant individuals have lived and many live now. Some of these we choose as more central. The Jesus movement, along with several others, stands the test of time; it formed and still forms much of the backbone of western civilization. I choose it because of this and my desire to continue as an active part of this culture.

Jesus Christ is a revelation of spiritual reality that I select to follow and believe. To choose this way is to leap in faith, to commit myself, to become a Christian. Rather than existing as a theoretical assumption, to accept Jesus as the central revelation of spiritual reality means to believe in the centrality of what Jesus said and showed, and to try to follow its implications for my life. If I became a cat and Fred accepted me as the provider of meaning for her life, she might stop crossing the road.

Why should spiritual reality want to self-reveal? I wish to communicate with you; the human race wishes to communicate with extraterrestrials; spiritual reality wishes to communicate with us. Arthur Peacocke follows this route when he tries to understand why spiritual reality wants to self-reveal. A personal God wants to self-disclose and would do so in a personal form. But as I have overemphasized already, I shy away from using words like moral, or purpose of spiritual reality. The properties of spiritual reality may so far exceed our human ones that they cease to resemble ours, and to claim the person-likeness of spiritual reality dangerously projects human qualities onto something we can as yet hardly fathom. Thus, unlike Peacocke, I hesitate to personify spiritual reality and decline to talk of spiritual reality as ‘wanting’ to do anything, including self-reveal. Rather, spiritual reality self-communicates as a natural part or progression of the evolution of culture; spiritual reality unfolds it all and this self-communication follows that pattern. Western culture directed a portion of that evolution when it chose Jesus as its focus.

What does Jesus reveal? Jesus’ revelation focuses on the experiences that touch the heart of our lives: love (altruism), inspiration, hope, suffering, and death, for instance. It tells us, first, that we should interpret and approach life in terms of altruistic love for each other, in terms of actions for the disadvantaged. The Christian model provides a general approach for how to live this out in everyday life. As Jesus tells the rich young man, ‘Sell all that you own and distribute the money to the poor’ (Luke 18:22). Or as James writes, ‘Coming to the help of orphans and widows when they need it’ (James 1:27).

Michael Ruse objects to the strong love command from his sociobiological point of view because he says it runs against what we would consider biologically natural. To forgive someone 490 times, he says, is irresponsible. Like a biblical fundamentalist, he interprets the commission as something we could literally achieve. The Christian love command, however, instead creates an ideal that no one will fulfill to the letter. To achieve a lofty goal, we must aim for something higher still.

Around us, our goals seem low. We fill our cities with filth. As individuals, corporations, government bodies, we dump garbage beside roads, into waterways – everywhere. Such selfish actions need to balance with our need for survival, which in turn requires the survival of our environment. For the human species to continue and for the repair and maintenance of the social and cosmic environment, we must limit our self-centered qualities (also necessary for survival), because their overuse threatens the survival of our species. We must hold them in balance. Jesus’ love example pushes altruism and therefore biological ‘altruism’; it can achieve this balance.

Biological ‘altruism’ generates altruism, the attitude that spiritual reality (our biological rootedness) prompts us to hold toward each other. Thus, this self-revelation by spiritual reality – our perception of the life and teachings of the man Jesus Christ – fits with the laws of nature. Spiritual reality works this way. The second aspect of Jesus’ revelation aligns altruism with spiritual reality, the whole that is the subuniverse. Christians like to say, ‘God is love’ (1 John 4:8).## WHICH TRANSLATION?

Asking Questions about Resurrection

After ‘revelation,’ ‘resurrection’ forms the second plank of Christian belief. Jesus died and Joseph of Arimathaea placed his body in a tomb. After a couple of days, according to Luke’s Gospel,

·        women went into the tomb to prepare his body for full burial, but he had disappeared;

·        Peter also found the tomb empty;

·        Jesus walked and ate with two of his disciples on the road to a village called Emmaus;

·        Jesus appeared to his eleven remaining apostles, talked with them, showed them his hands and feet, and ate with them.

Was he only a force in his followers’ minds, like George Washington in the minds of living American idealists? Did he have a physical body? Was he a ghost like Casper? Something happened to the person of Jesus after his death by which he continued in some form of life and interacted with others. This seems an indisputable base. But what did happen and what it means aroused and continues to arouse controversy. What happened historically, and where does interpretation begin? Like John Polkinghorne, I can’t say what form the resurrection of Jesus took, but it’s the fact of the resurrection that is more important than what emerged from the tomb between Jesus’ temporary burial and the arrival of the women. The resurrection dominates the empty tomb.

What does Jesus’ resurrection signify? The full impact of spiritual reality’s self-revelation requires the event that we call the resurrection. It helps interpret the life of Jesus and hence its meaning for us. Conversely, to understand or recognize his resurrection requires an understanding of who he was and is. The meaning of this resurrection, something that happened to Jesus, also calls upon the revelation. Logically, for Christians, the two are inseparable.

The fall of the Berlin Wall marked the beginning of the decline of Soviet communism in Eastern Europe. It signifies for some people that liberal democracy and its fellow consumerism will succeed in the end. Though the analogy is limited, the resurrection similarly signifies to those of the Christian faith that Jesus’ altruistic way will succeed in the end. Altruism will win, biological ‘altruism’ will win, and humanity will survive. Evil and suffering continue, but as Jesus suffered pain and humiliation and Spiritual reality left them alone, so the best will happen through them and in spite of them. Altruism exists to the end, and the universe becomes more whole: this is the hope in the alternative way of Jesus. Resurrection, therefore, emerges from biology and culture to become significant and important for us in the evolutionary survival of the human species.

For Christians, Jesus indicates the essential properties for being human. His resurrection establishes hope in the success of the way of altruism, that this way will beat rival ways of life. It also grounds a second hope, that there is more to our lives than bodily death. Jesus’ resurrection suggests our resurrection, our life after death. If he can do it, so can we.

But what is this ‘more’? What is eternal life? The system of spiritual ideas outlined in these pages emphasizes a wholeness in which entities retain their individuality but unite within the whole, which in turn affects the behavior of each. Similarly, all time exists in the subuniverse. It contains no divisions: I always existed there and I always will. The subuniverse expressed me in its unfolding that is me now, on earth, my body, mind, spirit, and experiences. I never leave the wholeness, and while on earth I only weakly perceive it. Each of us will experience an individualized afterlife within the whole into which we enfold. Each of us will affect all other events, even more than we recognize now. Each of us will implicitly contain all other persons, everything, and the whole. All of us will, all of the time, constantly connect with all other parts of reality, past, present, and all the possibilities for the future. Life after death reels in wholeness. We will then explore the endless possibilities of the subuniverse. Resurrected Jesus exemplifies this universal wholeness.

Altruistic behavior by humans marks the best way of life within the web of connections that is the universe-as-a-whole. It helps hold the structure of the web together, like an elastic glue, which in turn centers life after death. Thus, the two hopes the resurrection of Jesus imparts – eternal life and the success of altruism – relate closely.

This thumbnail system of spiritual ideas centers on the resurrection, on the wholeness that the subuniverse unfolds. I can say,

·        wholeness comes first (the subuniverse – see Chapter 5), which leads to

·        evolution and the evolution of humans, which leads to

·        the revelation of Jesus (altruism), which leads to

·        Jesus’ resurrection, which signifies

·        life after death, which is a form of

·        wholeness.

The resurrection speaks of our life’s mystery in the greatest of all mysteries: wholeness, spiritual reality as the subuniverse.

Note the partial nature of resurrection. It neglects our physical bodies, for instance. Knowing little about wholes, I remain mum about the details of my resurrected state.

Developing Starting Points

‘All right,’ said the Cat; and this time it vanished quite slowly, beginning with the end of the tail, and ending with the grin, which remained some time after the rest of it had gone.

‘Well! I’ve often seen a cat without a grin,’ thought Alice; ‘but a grin without a cat! It’s the most curious thing I ever saw in all my life!’ Lewis Carroll, Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland (London: William Heinemann, 1907), 78.

Our smiles continue on. I lay aside the question of what of me or what of the universe resurrects and what fails to, why that occurs, and how it adds up. I lay aside some matters, but I answer other more important ones. I try with them to create the rudiments of a system of Christian spiritual ideas. I want the Christian emphasis because I think the religion for western society needs to root itself in Judaism and Christianity, given its cultural heritage. To develop along Christian lines, the ideas must center on Jesus the Christ, and it must relate positively to the Christian tradition. But Western culture grows in an international context, which means it involves more and more other cultural traditions. The motivator, Stephen Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, is a Mormon who quotes liberally from a variety of wisdom traditions: ancient Egyptian, Native American, Greek, Hebrew, Christian, Chinese, Indian. ##[Covey uses the word ‘habit’ rather than use an especially religious or theological idea.]##My system ideas should do likewise, adding the wisdom of other traditions to what it receives from its predecessors.

 ## Perhaps the addition I make in this book to some of the ideas of MT01 re Spiritual reality is to develop a way of talking about spiritual reality/Spiritual reality that’s not personal.

Evolution (= the spiritual unfolding) goes through cultural evolution as this requires trans-kin religions. It continues to unfold through, for example, scientific research. How does this scientific research relate to Christianity and its truths (see JT’s polemics)? Need to talk about the relationship of science to the spiritual’s self-revelation. Need for the personal aspect of Spiritual reality.

The way of altruism is one way to find meaning in life. Is it the best way to do so?

Spiritual thinking comes in especially with the last question, though it ought to be intertwined with all the elements, including morality and explanation. How do my spiritual ideas specifically come in? How does it relate to the biology of meaning and the LoL stuff? Perhaps it should be based on the LoL/social psychology research on meaning perhaps there’s a lot more on this than I’ve so far come across. How does an awareness of uaaw relate to my sense of life’s meaning? Look at how I react to Mary’s illness, to my own, to the challenges and opportunities of life, to the sense of adventure. It gives a sense of hope (resurrection through interconnectedness), a sense of the possibility of greater significance (spiritual reality transcending our properties), etc. The life experiences become a key criteria for evaluating a system of spiritual thought. ??? what sort of faith is most appropriate for happiness in the modern world???##

##Summary:

Overall: How can we become happy in a way that is spiritually healthy and true? To strive for happiness we ought to follow what scientific research says are the routes to happiness. These are also the spiritual ways to happiness.

Tension:

What would make us happier? In particular, how can we become happier in a way that’s true to our inmost spiritual selves?

Ending:

To follow the scientifically established ways is to follow spiritual reality’s ways toward living in the higher range of our happiness set points.##

 



[i]Myers 1992: 185.

[ii]Myers 1992: 189.

[iii]Myers (unpub. ms.): Chap. 9, p. 27.

[iv]Myers (unpub. ms.): Chap. 9, p. 27.

[v]Sources used in this chapter:

Myers 1992: 182-190, 192-195;

Myers (unpub. ms.), Chap. 5, pp. 1-13; Chap. 9, pp. 1, 4-5, 27-28.